I masturbate several times a day, i would like to stop because it takes away the time i really need because im such a busy person. Any ideas?
2006-09-30 05:22:01 · 25 answers · asked by Poo for ALL 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
man just stop doing it do something else besides masturbating, video games, school work.
2006-09-30 05:23:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, therapy. You could be a sex addict. Check out this article about sex addiction at http://redbook.ivillage.com/sex/0,,9kgf1mq3,00.html .
The guy started out as chronic masturbator too. Get healing now.
I found a counselor through New Life Ministries. Call 1-800-NEW-LIFE and they should be able to refer you to a counselor in your area. Or visit http://www.newlife.com/.
They have a page or link there called Every Man's Battle, which deals with sex issues. Your avatar looks like a girl, but this is becoming an increasing problem among women also.
You're not alone.
2006-09-30 05:28:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres nothing wrong with it. me and my bf have phone sex a couple times a day cuz hes in a different state. if it takes up the time u need for other things then just make sure u get ur responsibilities taken care of first and then you can do it as much as you want!!
2006-09-30 05:39:08 · answer #3 · answered by Lil Lost Kitten 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm very busy too and I masturbate alot....you need a toy that can get you off really fast to save you time...something like ME! I love to please.
I masturbate alot AND still take care of my gf daily/nightly. I don't see this being a problem.
Now take off your socks and let me sniff your feet. But only if you have pretty feet and a nice arch. I'm picky.
2006-09-30 05:29:43 · answer #4 · answered by Submit to her Feet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi there,
pleasuring yourself is healthy and leads to a better sex life ( so it is said!) ,
I find it hard to fathom your point after you say that you are such a busy person?
When do you get the time in the day to pleasure yourself several times?.
Confused
2006-09-30 06:09:49 · answer #5 · answered by Adrian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Occupy your mind and your energy to the things you know need to get done.....Or else find a safe partner. Masturbation is a healthy and natural thing, but if it takes up most of your day and your thoughts you might need to consult professional help.
2006-09-30 05:27:52 · answer #6 · answered by Tawney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heavy physical activity. If you are chronically masturbating, the QUALITY of your sex life is most likely horrible. Your constant masturbating is a sign of many things, (high sex drive, depression, nervous energy, etc)
But one thing is sure, if you make yourself become physically drained (through lifting weights or extreme aerobics - please check with your physician for level of activity you plan), then the propensity to "relieve yourself" through your chronic masturbation is GUARANTEED to cease.
Plus, you'll be in great shape for great QUALITY sex...
WITH ANOTHER PERSON, (and not yourself!)
2006-09-30 05:48:18 · answer #7 · answered by Number1son 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try and limit yourself, try cutting down at first say to 3 or 4 times and eventually get it down to once or twice. Keep yourself busy and try not to think about it.
2006-09-30 05:25:43 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont stop.Try getting up to four times a day instead.Something yu are doin is less important.
2006-09-30 05:34:57 · answer #9 · answered by Nevada S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is never good to stop cold turkey unless you have the will power to do it. but slow it down graduatly. like seting certain time you do it or how many time you do it a day and stick to it.
2006-09-30 05:27:38 · answer #10 · answered by OB the Wolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋