I see so many people who answer other people's questions rudely.Is this really necessary? So what if someone makes a typo or is not knowledgeable in an area.Why say anything at all?
2006-09-30 05:20:42 · 22 answers · asked by JewelsH 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
It seems to be human nature to pick on the weak and bully those you dont like. Thru the internet they can let their true natures out. In reality they may just slink off or sulk in the shadows for fear of being killed.
But in real life people with power also abuse those without power. The police, politicians, governmental agencies, judges, lawyers, priests - they commit the majority of all crimes in the world and at a scale unheard of.
Absolute power corrupts absolutely.
2006-09-30 05:26:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
The written word is an odd duck.
Some people have a hard time conveying humor or sarcasm through the written word - particularly with people unfamiliar with their mannerisms. Perhaps the rudeness isn't intended as such, but was misinterpreted.
And then again, there are those who are just typing in some letters to get points as if this were some new computer game.
If an answer seems rude, give it a thumbs down.
2006-09-30 12:58:54 · answer #2 · answered by north79004487 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with what a lot of people are saying. It's a lack of respect, and also a blatant show of their insecurities. I've gotten rude answers for questions that were totally innocent, yet some people have a stick up their bums for a number of reasons. I don't agree with that chick that said if you don't like the answers, stop asking questions. We have the right to ask what we want to know here and people should have the respect to either answer the question to the best of their abilities, or move on instead of spouting off some nonsensical or juvenille attack. It's better to just not stoop to their immature level by acknowledging their presence. I've learned that you can't do anything about the jerks but to ignore them.
2006-09-30 12:49:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's a basic lack of respect.
These are the same people who in real life are probably pretty puny feeling. The computer gives us the anonymity to be bullies,seemingly without repercussions. It isn't necessary and I agree. If you can't say anything nice or be truly funny you should walk away from the keyboard. I enjoy funny and saucy people on the internet and I have learned a lot from this forum and have some very nice friends on the 360. Sometimes there are hi-jinks but for the most part there is respect.
2006-09-30 12:32:26 · answer #4 · answered by Ragdollfloozie is Pensive! 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Ms. Jewels: Minor spelling mistakes are fine, but when there is a 'check spelling' button in the top right hand corner of the box, well one has to wonder.
I'm not saying that it is a justifiable reason to condemn someone or be rude. As for not having knowledge, that's why there is this question forum and I guess sometimes people just don't act on their best behavior.
Got to admit some question are pretty idiotic and most of the answers to their questions could be found by doing a simple yahoo search themselves.
2006-09-30 12:39:31 · answer #5 · answered by usaf.primebeef 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You have a kind and gentle soul. I think maybe they do it because it gives them a feeling of superiority. Not all of them, of course, but some of them.
Some of them could be teachers who can't tolerate people messing up their nouns and verbs or misspelling. I wonder why anyone is responding at all to a few users who are asking silly questions and wanting to get attention?
I'm sure, also, that what I have written may have perceived as rude or unkind but was never meant to have that intention.
Communication is difficult in any situation, isn't it?
Keep being kind and gentle and maybe you're good manners and peacefulness will rub off onto some of the rest of us! :) God's Blessings!
2006-09-30 12:27:59 · answer #6 · answered by MissHazel 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
The area of expertise differ greatly from one person to another. The person giving the rude answer should try and remember that just because he/she knows the answer and feels that the question is boring, the person asking this question does not. A rude answer does nothing to enhance the reputation of that person. Think of it this way, would you like to have your questions answered in a rude and non-caring manner? I think not.
Not sure if this is answering your question or not, but hope it is of some help.
2006-09-30 12:57:39 · answer #7 · answered by Peter M 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That is simple JewelsH. People are rude because they are not saying it directly to you, by hiding behind a monitor. Society has not taught much manners these days as our younger generation grows up. This is not how these boards should be. "If You Don't Have Anything Nice To Say Don't Say It At All." Just move onto another question just shows immaturity on your part slamming people(No Offense meant there just constructive criticism).
2006-09-30 12:56:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
In several cases it is probably a personality disorder. They are trying to create the illusion of control when they have little ability to really control much of anything. It isn't normally human nature to be that way, but I can see where someone who is mentally disturbed might need to believe it is normal behavior. There are too many of these people around because of a our cultural dysfunction. Learning to not be defensive or taking it personally is probably the best way to deal with it.
2006-09-30 12:37:10 · answer #9 · answered by Sketch 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No it is not necessary. I think it is rude because i have had some people say rude things to me. I think that they should just keep there comments to themselves. There is no reason for the rude remarks. People know when they make mistakes and they dont need other people to tell them that.
2006-09-30 12:36:09 · answer #10 · answered by dancer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋