Well, me and my gf have been together for 5 years and lately having a long distance relationship so during the summer she went to a convention where we both knew that there was a guy who likes her but he couldnt get her, so one time we had a fight over the phone and seems like she told her friends that she is single so that guy kept on making moves on her and being too nice and finally he managed to lips kiss her, it happened couple of times and they used to talk on the phone and eveytime i used to call her, she said that she is busy with her friends hanging out at night. She felt guilty and she confused to me 2 month later and she ensured me that she only liped kissed him and nth more so my question is was she heart broken of our fight because it was about breaking up or was she full aware of her actions but doing it for the fun of it? Why did she do it? and is it worth a break up after 5 years relationship?
2006-09-30 05:11:38 · 9 answers · asked by diliskies 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Unfortunately, absence makes the eyes go wander. You've been together five years and, like all relationships, the spark does diminish. So here she is, away from home and some guys pays some attention to her.
I don't think she was thinking clearly when the kisses happened, she got caught up in the romance. She probably wasn't thinking that it might break up the relationship.
If you two do stay together, you have to think are you going to be able to trust her because if you can't you might as well break up now.
2006-09-30 05:15:24 · answer #1 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, and give yourself a break from this long distance relationship. You are starting to forget about normal daily relationship quirks. The game is totally different with long-distance. Go out on some dates with girls in your area, and it will give you an idea if your long distance should stay just that, long distance.
2006-09-30 05:14:56 · answer #2 · answered by pecksun8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
~Yes she knew what she was doing..she liked the guy and was lonely, she prob just wanted some affection..(we need alot of that!...s...)..she didn't want to loose you after it didn't work out so she confessed..(good thing) she could of not ever told you...but it mite happen again if she finds somone else interested in her...as for breaking up..relationships are about commitment!..(to me it has to come Close to UNCONDITIONAL Love) but you need to be with her everyday to hold her and show her in person that you love her and this is why I say "Most long distance relationships do not work!"...but you have spent 5yrs together, if you love her then it's worth it to give it another try~~~> ;o}
2006-09-30 05:27:43 · answer #3 · answered by dreamzzz102 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's probably doing it to annoy you. Which is a really ***-hole thing to do. Maybe try to get he back, but not that harshly, or take a break from her altogether, with a long distance relationship, you never know what will happen
2006-09-30 05:15:37 · answer #4 · answered by Pooge 2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to sit down and talk face to face - phoning is not the same. Ask her the questions that you asked us and see what she says. See how you feel about it and then make your decision whether to forgive her or move on.
2006-09-30 05:16:11 · answer #5 · answered by crosbie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what she did it but she is definitely messing with your head. Go find another girl who does not play head games.
2006-09-30 05:15:29 · answer #6 · answered by Je t'aime 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she cheated on you!!shes using you man!!
she can trust you to be there when she breaks up with her other bf's!! so your. . . well shes just using her!! yesyes, break up wiht her!! you didnt cheat on her!! you deserve better. and dont try to get even that just brings you down to her scummy lvl. . .grrrrrrrrr *bite*
2006-09-30 05:14:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
her actions says it all was she thinking of you when she was kissing him just a thought
2006-09-30 05:16:33 · answer #8 · answered by mz.thang 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump her she is doing more than kissing
2006-09-30 05:24:26 · answer #9 · answered by kyongco 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋