i went out with a guy for 1 week and 4 days... he asked me out..... but then he wanted me to break up with him and i didn't so he did... he claims he is in love with his ex.. he wants us to be friends...now he is not going out with anyone... neither am i... when we are next to eachother he talks but sometimes it seems wired... then yesterday.. when we got out of school his friend picked us up. when we got in the car he sat right next to me and left to other seats empty...then he was acting like we are back together, holding my hand etc. and.. and he is very protective of me and he cares about me a lot... i don't know what to do.. i like him but he doesn't know... and i'm very confused, what is he doing?? does he like me now...?
2006-09-30 05:07:01 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we see eachother everyday a lot cause my bestfriend is going out with his bestfriend.. and whenever i call him he seems all happy and everything...
2006-09-30 05:09:02 · update #1
his ex doesn't want to go back out with him and he know he was my first bf.. and his friend knows very well me so don't think anything stupid about me being in his car....
2006-09-30 05:19:23 · update #2
dont waste your time, he chose another girl over you, do yu really want to be with a guy that you know in his heart you came second behind his ex, but if you just want to mess around and not start anything serious, go for it!
2006-10-01 16:49:58 · answer #1 · answered by cuteybooty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, this guy does not know what he wants and is keeping you on the side. You deserve someone who wants to be with you, without all the excuses. Move on and make some new friends. Start having some own fun in your own life and stop wasting all your time thinking about some boy. Your young and you have all the time int he world for having a boyfriend. But you are more important then that. Discover and enhance your own life.
2006-09-30 12:12:14 · answer #2 · answered by pecksun8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All good question. Which I don't have the answers to what is troubling u. Sweetie when u kids are in school and doing the hole gf/bf thing. I dont' think no one really knows what they wont. U tell him that u now feel he is leadind u on. He broke up w/ u b/c he said he wonted to be w/ his ex. But he isn't and he's holding ur hand etc... Tell him he either has to be w/ u for real are to just be ur friend. Which means none of the holding hands and etc...
2006-09-30 12:10:49 · answer #3 · answered by Kimberly C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just not that into you (there's actually a book on that very topic). If he was, he wouldn't have pulled the stuff he did. Besides, you're too good to put up with it so move on. Besides, do you want to really deal with the "ex girlfriend he's still in love with" baggage. People just don't fall out of love overnight.
Besides if he really wants to get back with you, make him work for it. Don't be so easy to get. If he's genuine then he'll come after you and if he isn't then he isn't worth your time.
2006-09-30 12:13:18 · answer #4 · answered by DiscountDiva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that he... maybe misses the old times? But doesn't want a relationship? Remind him you two aren't going out, and that that sort of behaviour isn't right with friends. Maybe he'll go out with you again? Who knows?
2006-09-30 12:09:40 · answer #5 · answered by coolkittenwinx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a guy who has trouble comitting so maybe just friends is a good step right now. Manwhile you can try dating other people.
2006-09-30 12:10:34 · answer #6 · answered by Pooge 2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well................1 week and 4 days = 11 days in total. This bouncing ball was re-bounced by his so called EX. Now he wants you to stroke his deflated ego. This is just a setup........."He jus wanna hv SX"! Watch out for your own good & sanity.
2006-09-30 12:13:48 · answer #7 · answered by sanjeev_sanju2u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he will just break up with you again he probley tryed to get back with his ex and that didn't work so now he is back with you. you should tell him that if he wanted to be with you he had his chance and move on to someone who would really care about you.
2006-09-30 12:13:23 · answer #8 · answered by chris e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby Angel , riding in cars with boys that pretend to like you is dangerous. Find someone who really likes you.
2006-09-30 12:11:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kids go back and forth between friends and girlfriends and boyfriends so quickly. Don't read too much into this and just let it go and you'll be fine.
2006-09-30 12:10:59 · answer #10 · answered by kitten lover3 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋