2006-09-30 05:03:48 · 12 answers · asked by wondering 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
questions like this keeps appearing. i'm sure you have heard of some common ones like take up a hobby and time will heal your heart.
i have been through that.
the pain is unberable and even until this extent you wish this would have never happened to you.But you must know,love is never perfect. Not even marraige.
What i did was to walk along the beach and find a quiet place to relax my mind. I refelected on the good times and the bad times. And I told myself life is never prefect.No matter how much I want thinghs to work out between us it is just not meant to be.I talked to my friends about it almost everyday and they were the ones who got me back up and mostly is the determination in myself to move on with life.
Have faith in yourself to move on with life. Stop looking back on the past alrytes? I hope you will get through with it. :)
2006-09-30 05:15:19 · answer #1 · answered by cutevina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel because I've just been through it. If you and your ex cannot get back together again, don't think of reconciliation anymore. Look on the bright side. It might just be a good thing that you two have broken up. Try to let out all the bad feelings suppressed within you. Put your mind on something worth doing, or something you enjoy a lot.
I just recovered from my break-up that happened a month ago. Because no one around me knew I had a boyfriend, so I didn't confide in anyone. Ever since my ex broke up with me, I had a lot of negative feelings bottled up inside. So a few days ago, I cried as hard and as loud as I could, to vent everything. Now I feel back to normal.
2006-09-30 05:15:17 · answer #2 · answered by gummy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my friend...In my experience, it is true what they say. Time heals all wounds. Although I am sure that there are those who don't ever get over it.
Just take it day by day, and don't get into any maladaptive coping mechanisms. That is to say, don't start doing things that would harm you or others. For instance, deciding not to study, or sleep, or sleeping too much, eating too much. You know, don't do things because of this break up that will end up harming you in the long run. If you must do something to get your mind off it, go to the gym and work out, that's a positive outlet because it has positive consequences.
Just give it time.
2006-09-30 05:09:54 · answer #3 · answered by l_tone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I knew what you are saying. Are you saying you had to break up one month ago and still don't feel good about it. Break ups are vdery hard and no one feels good about it. So just know that you are not alone. People break up all the time and feel the hurt man time it's a life time hurt. Try to find support at support groups like http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Thebrokenheartedgroup/
that has three hundred members and growing daily.
and good luck.
2006-09-30 05:10:34 · answer #4 · answered by pundit005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called "Stop Thinking", everytime you start think about a topic, you immediately think about a huge red stop sign, and then start thinking about something else. Give it a try and also start doing new and different things. Try a new hobbie, sport or go to the gym. Get out and just have fun with your friends.
2006-09-30 05:09:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out of the house, go to a freinds house, go shopping, go to a movie, join a civic group or social group. Just get out and do something. The more active you become the better you will feel.
2006-09-30 05:06:38 · answer #6 · answered by ellc123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will get over it in your own time. There is no time limit on getting over a break up. Breaking up is a tough thing especially if you really loved that person. Try and get out with your friends ,,,dont sit and dwell on the past. whats done is done. Sorry for your break up.
2006-09-30 05:08:05 · answer #7 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same thing happend to me, and hope she feels the way you do..for the reason is if you feel this way maybe you boke it off to soon...so take one more nite, then in the morning call him, no send the person flowers and tell him what you are feeling..no answer then you both just had what was called closer...
2006-09-30 05:10:25 · answer #8 · answered by daddys eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all tell your self. did i do the right thing? IF you did. MOVE ON. IF YOU NEEd to go back then go back.
2006-09-30 05:06:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to hook up again wit ur gf or bf or u guys can just be friends not hav to be serious
2006-09-30 05:05:39 · answer #10 · answered by - 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋