Body language tips...?

Question

I need to let this guy know that i'm still interested in him without coming on too strong and scaring him off, any advice??

Answer 1

1) Lock Eyes
Lock eyes with the person you're flirting with for a full five to six seconds, then smile and drop your gaze. Don't stare a hole through the guy's forehead for goodness sake, just give him a smoldering come-hither look and look away. Do this at least three times in a ten to fifteen-minute period. Why? Your target needs to know it's them you're flirting with, and eye contact is a universal signal of openness.

2) Smile
Smiling is absolutely the most effective tool in your flirting toolbox. Psychology and body language experts agree that one of the most important things you can do to make yourself more attractive (and approachable) is to smile. Not a giant plastic used car salesman smile, just your normal "I'm having a great time and I'm happy to be here" face will do the trick. According to body language expert Patti Wood, "the smile is the international signal of friendliness." Guys, if you lock eyes and smiles with a woman three or more times in an evening, you have received a clear signal that she's interested. Make your move, head on over and start up a conversation. If you don't, somebody else will.

3) Be a Vampire's Best Friend
One of the most winning flirting techniques a woman can use is the exposure of her neck. This can be done with a head tilt to one side, the classic hair flip, or my personal favorite, the over-the-shoulder glance - the asymmetrical position attracts attention, exposes your neck, and gives you the opportunity to lock eyes. The over-the-shoulder move is extra-effective because it's sexy and it sends a signal to your target that they are worth a second look.

4) Preen Like A Peacock
We tend to preen or groom ourselvessubconsciously when we're attracted to someone, by smoothing down our hair or clothes, checking our lipstick in a compact, or straightening a tie. Try combining a grooming gesture with a smile and a gaze. Another trick? Toss your hair to one side. This classic move is a double whammy that combines preening and a flash of neck. Need we say more?

5) Lip Service
Both men and women are subconsciously attracted to red, moist lips because they signal youth, sex and fertility. How to make the most of it? For women, try wearing a red lipstick (red has been shown to increase a man's heart rate), which not only gives your lips that youthful color, but also makes your smile more visible and your teeth whiter. A super-shiny lip gloss can also give you an advantage, making your lips look moist and kissable. For both men and women, try licking your lips (subtlety is key here, you don't want to look like you're trying out for a porno flick.) or biting your lower lip - both are extremely effective flirting behaviors.

6) Cross Your Legs (Women)
Crossing and uncrossing your legs is another surefire flirting technique, especially if you're wearing high heels. The act of crossing your legs is quite seductive to men, and it makes them desire to see more. Another key seduction trick is slipping your heel out of your shoe and dangling it on your toes. The arch of the foot sends a sexual message and mimics a woman's curves, and sends a man's heart racing.

7) Let Your Feet Do The Talking
According to body language expert Wood, you want to make yourself a "safe" (read approachable) target. Wood says "to be very approachable women should stand with their feet no farther than 6 inches apart with toes pointed slightly inward. "

8) Be a Mimic
People mirror each other's body language when they are attracted with similar gestures, voice volume, etc. Try subtly mimicking your flirting target's behavior. If she leans forward, you lean forward. If he scratches his head, you scratch your head. If you are mirroring someone's behavior, they'll begin to feel as though the two of you are connected and "in tune."

9) Focus, Focus, Focus.
Once you and your flirting target have started talking, use these tips to deepen the attraction. First, smile and maintain eye contact as they are speaking, and focus all of your attention on what they are saying. There is rarely anyone more attractive than someone who finds you utterly fascinating. Other key moves, the nod and the head tilt - signal you're listening to what the other person has to say. Smiling and laughing are crucial here - it's the quickest, easiest way to put another person at ease and make a connection. Finally, another effective flirting technique is low-level touching such as brushing the shoulder or elbow.
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Answer 2

if u still like him then don't be afraid 2 tell him, go up 2 him and in a suddle way just say that ur interested and would like 2 give it a try. there's no need 4 all that body language stuff.

Answer 3

Smile, make eye-contact, brush up against him (but be subtle), laugh a lot (but make sure it's sincere...don't just laugh for the sake of laughing), touch your hair while you look at him. Look at him, look away, then look back at him again. Don't cross your arms in front of you when you are around him - that sends the non-verbal cue of being closed off.

Good luck! Hope you snag him.

Answer 4

Smile , play with your hair a bit, touch him when your talking to him (like on the shoulder or arm) and remember to make eye contact.

Hope it helps!

Answer 5

Tilt your head to the left when you talk to him, smile and really pay attention when he talks to you, always look in his eyes. The looking in his eyes will make him nervous, if he likes you he will not be able to handle that and he will look away. Flirting is the best. Have fun.

Answer 6

always smile when you're around him, and pay more attention to him than any one else. Talk to him about his interests and whats goin on in his life. Men love to be YOUR center of attention.

Answer 7

Don't play any games, just go up and talk to him. You can get a good feeling from just idle chatter.

Answer 8

A touch. Be all touchy-feely with him..... I do of course mean a touch on the arm, shoulder, etc. A soft touch can communicate much.

Answer 9

just be open with the guy for he might feel the same way, but thinks the chance has went away, worst that could happen is he still like you so go for it, take a chance on love

Answer 10

Make conversation with him. Always smile when he's around.