I do. What's the deal- is it an ex, a childhood friend, high school sweet heart?
I met a man about 3 years ago who I still think of everyday, even though we never see each other. Sometimes I feel like he's the one I let get away.
What's your story?
2006-09-30 04:59:11 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And to answer the deputy, i'm asking because i let something slip away from me, and it crosses my mind every damn day.... i've moved on from him, and although it happened a few years ago and i'm no longer hurt, i still think about him and wonder what if...... i was curious if anyone else has felt that way
and it ended because of my own foolish insecurities
2006-09-30 05:13:13 · update #1
yes ! there are several persons (mostly female) that i think about on a regular basis. sometimes wondering how they are and hoping they are happy, sometimes kicking myself for letting them go, sometimes just as a reminder not to find anyone like them ever again. and sometimes with regret, in example my first love ms. claudia zech who i let get away do to my youth, stupidity, lack of maturity, and low self esteem at the time. i let her go because i wanted her to be happy and have a chance at a very good life. when i should have grown up, steped up and did everything in the world to make her happy, she was my first love from age 13 to present. all i can hope for now is that she has had a wonderful life. so why are you asking this question yourself, and be brutally honest.
2006-09-30 05:09:02 · answer #1 · answered by grim_reaper_69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was about 13 when I met him. He lived in the street and was the older brother of a girl I played with (he was 16 at the time).
When I was 16 he and I became friends. We had one kiss right before he was going away on holidays and while he was away, I met the guy I eventually married.
We saw each other a few times but I ran into him about two months after separating from my husband. We dated for about 6 months but he told me he would never love me. I tried the old "I'll keep him with sex" but that didn't work and all we ended up with was a sexual relationship (he would call at midnight and I'd go over and vice versa).
I've been with my man now almost 9 years and I still think about him, especially when I drive past where he use to live where I grew up.
2006-09-30 12:02:52 · answer #2 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is someone that I think about that I haven't seen in 25 years. The last time we talked was about 12 years ago. I wouldn't say that I think of him everyday but pretty close. This is because I am recently single and his 48th birthday is in a few days. I know that through out the years this has occurred during the times when my life is in transition or certain seasons. But I know to this day that this was the one for me but I don't regret the course I've went on I just wonder what if. Or wonder what he would think. We use to say that we would reunite on Jenny Jones but I think that she has gone off the air long ago. Today I am 44 with six grandchildren and 3 wonderful children so my life is very full and I don't have time to per sue any relationships but it leaves you with lot's of time to ponder.
2006-09-30 12:31:01 · answer #3 · answered by pam c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A year ago, I met a guy on my Bangkok (Thailand) trip and during that one special night, we talked and had a jolly good time together- it's as though as we were good pals for a long, long time.
I didn't know anything about him except for his name and the fact that we had some really good vibes going on.
When I came back to home, I messaged/ called him but he did not respond to me. I don't know what was the missing link. I thought we had something going and maybe, we can develop further.
Till this day, he is the one who really got away with a piece of my heart.
2006-09-30 12:05:38 · answer #4 · answered by miss satine 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, sometimes I do think about him.
He's a friend's friend I met almost 3 years ago. He's a nice guy, and he likes me. We used to chat on the phone late in the nights. It came to a point when my friends were teasing me and I don't know how to react to the fact that he likes me. In the end, I told him that I only see him as a friend. From then on, he never called or text me again.
I really regret not cherishing him because later on, I realised that I actually do like him a lot. He's one guy who would never hurt me. But now, it's too late. =(
2006-09-30 12:05:33 · answer #5 · answered by gummy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had a classmate 4 years ago that I now think about quite a bit. We were best friends. We were in the same class for 3rd and 4th grade, and were inseparable. I miss him now. I still wonder how he is doing, and what I would do if I ever saw him again. I almost wish we could be together, but we have both ,oved on as far as I know.
2006-09-30 12:03:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes I do, but more with irritation now than any love or other sentiment. He hurt me and he didn't seem to have too much difficulty doing it. He has never apologised and I lost not only him but a 'close' friend. He knew I had trust issues and he still went ahead and did what he did.
I would talk to him if I ever saw him again, but I could never let my defences down, I don't trust him, and I don't even think I like him now. Shame.
2006-09-30 12:03:24 · answer #7 · answered by Eden* 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I still think of this woman, who left me 2 years ago. What confused me about it is that she left me without giving me an explanation. Not long ago i saw her at the movies with another guy, but she didn't see me. It brought back memories because that's what me and her use to do. But hey life goes on
2006-09-30 12:06:25 · answer #8 · answered by henryskia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i like this boy for a year and i haven't seen him for a year and now we are back in school and i still can't get over him i don't even know why i just like him the main subject thats its never to late to call and old friend or ex or and body if they are married or something i would understand to but its sometimes to late but its never bad not to stop trying
2006-09-30 12:03:08 · answer #9 · answered by baby girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i was with someone for just over a year, at the time i was confused about my feelings for him but instead of talking to him or taking time to think about things i did the most stupid thing. i started seeing someone else behind his back and he found out. he was devestated and was willing to give me a second chance but i still couldnt see how fantastic he was. i left him for the other guy and it's the biggest regret of my life. i finished up miserable with him and it didnt last.
he is married now with a little girl and i am with a great guy who i love to bits and is wonderful to me but it doesnt stop me thinking about my past love.
2006-09-30 12:06:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋