My situation is as follows. a month ago I started a computer class and I kinda fell in love with my teacher( he's in his late 20's, I'm 24). At first he didn't give me any signs that he might feel the same. After a while, I think I sensed something from his part, too. But he didn't ask me out or anything. Today I found out that he might not teach to our class again, he was replaced. Now, I have his e-mail address. Do you think I should start communicating w/ him this way, at first asking him whether he'll teach to our class our not? I don't know if he has a girlfriend or not...I really don't know what to do and also I wouldn't want to make a fool of myself. help....
2006-09-30 04:51:34 · 18 answers · asked by pope1882 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I WANT TO CLEAR SOME THINGS. HE IS NOT MY TEACHER IN COLLEGE, IT'S A PRIVATE FIRM THAT GIVES THESE CLASSES. I WOULDN'T HAVE EVER HAD THESE KIND OF THOUGHTS WITH A TEACHER IN COLLEGE. AND LAST, I DON'T LIVE IN AMERICA.
2006-09-30 05:07:35 · update #1
Honey, life is too short to beat around the bush. You should ask him out. At that point, you will find out all of your answers, and trust me, he will NOT think you are a fool for asking him out. If he is worth anything, he will be both honored and flattered at it, and if anyone else thinks you are making a fool of yourself, then so what? sometimes you have to make a fool of yourself to get what you want.
Go for it.
2006-09-30 05:08:12 · answer #1 · answered by Space Case 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sure e-mail him you'll never know if he likes u are any of the answers to your questions unless u ask him. I can say from experience I had a guy who was teaching a class. Not in school. But anyway I thought he was so sexy and so sweet and blah blah. I too felt the same things coming from him. So one night after class as I was walking to my car he was walking to his truck and I said hey do u got a gf. He was like nope. I was like whatcha doing tonight he said nothing... And I wont tell the rest of the story from there:) But as I said ask him.. You might be surprised as what u find out.
2006-09-30 12:30:16 · answer #2 · answered by Kimberly C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Promiscuous...lots of drama there, I smell a sitcom. Seriously, though...I find it kind of disgusting that you as a student were falling for the teacher in the first place(you know they can lose their job for that, right?) But since he is no longer your professor(I'm assuming this is in college) you could give him an e-mail..and it probably wouldn't hurt things.
The odds of him not having a g/f or atleast not dating a couple people are very slim however.
2006-09-30 11:57:17 · answer #3 · answered by Jim 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should start by asking for private lessons. Tell him something like" this new teacher just isn't getting it across like you did'. Then while at lessons attract him in slow but settle ways. One really good way to do this is the touching of hands. Then invite him out to lunch. But don't do this too quickly, it could back fire. then share interests and talk, you're sure to reel him in!
Good luck!
2006-09-30 12:00:51 · answer #4 · answered by Pooge 2000 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure. Email him about the class and just go from there. You could ask him about plans for the weekend or evs and hopefully if he DOES have a girlfriend, she will be mentioned in his response. Good Luck!
2006-09-30 11:54:54 · answer #5 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just send him a basic "hello, how have you been?" message. Don't get into your feelings for him unless he brings something up about being interested in you. At least not right now, if you see something more developing out of it through talking with him, then maybe you can ask him out one night.
2006-09-30 11:56:28 · answer #6 · answered by Shining Ray of Light 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should e-mail him and see if things can go further.Just start with some simple things like How r u?Or something like that.I think if you force the situation you will not be successful.
2006-09-30 12:01:08 · answer #7 · answered by nick j 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
start out slowly ask if he is teaching the class...ask for help...then ask him if he is in a relationship. if you sense anything before you ask him about the relationship that he would like to go out then go from their. or maybe he removed himself from the class because he dont want to get into trouble with the school about dating students. you can just go for it and ask him out....
2006-09-30 11:57:54 · answer #8 · answered by deputy_dog_43 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
write him...thank him for teaching you...that you really liked him and hated that he is not still your teacher, Tell him that you need help in the class and would even cook a dinner for some tutoring ;-) In his 20s he likes a good home cooked dinner.
2006-09-30 11:57:31 · answer #9 · answered by travlin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well in this world of right and wrong yes and no..... just think to yourself... "the worst he could say is no" then make your decision to go for it or not.... what's fun with life if you don't take chances ever once in a while?
2006-09-30 11:57:20 · answer #10 · answered by Branden W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋