My bf canceled to go out with he’s mates tonight when we had plans to go out and we had not gone out together in months am I wrong to be pissed of at him
2006-09-30 04:48:17 · 39 answers · asked by jess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you've not been out in months, then he is not your boyfriend. Dump him and find someone who wants to be with you.
2006-09-30 04:51:48 · answer #1 · answered by Kate 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am not going to say you are wrong to get pissed off, but I will say that it will do you know good. What you need to do is sit down with him and let him know how you feel. If you are in a serious relationship going months at a time without doing something together is crazy. I know when my wife and I were dating if I tried to go more then a couple weeks without at least having dinner and a movie together I was in the dog house. Let him know that your not asking him to abandon his friends. All you want is some quality time with him. If after you explain this to him and he is not up for some alone time, then most definitely you should reconsider being mad.
2006-09-30 04:58:38 · answer #2 · answered by liddleman101 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, you're not wrong. If he had canceled plans to go see his sick mother, or other dying family members...or if he had got called into work(say his job is in the medical field) then all of those excuses are legit and excusable.
but to hang out with the guy's after he promised to and made plans for that night, to be with you? Not a very legit or excusable reason. Talk to him about it, and if he doesn't seem to think there is a problem with it dump his ****, he doesn't deserve you.
2006-09-30 04:51:34 · answer #3 · answered by Jim 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, your not wrong for being upset with him. but it is wrong to just sit around with bottled up anger while he does the same thing again! So next time you go out with your friends or make another date. Along with a date you can make a pact not to cancel no matter what.
I really hope this helps!
2006-09-30 04:53:25 · answer #4 · answered by Pooge 2000 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No you are not wrong. If you aren't at the top of his priority list then maybe it's time to go looking for a BF who will.
2006-09-30 04:51:09 · answer #5 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are not wrong dear. Just selfish! You'll see that this behavior will leave you man-less if it continues. Going out should be a mutual thing, not a dictatorship of one's feelings. Find someone who enjoys going out. This will relieve your tension....There must be some reason that he doesn't want to take you out...
2006-09-30 04:51:48 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you have every right to be pissed off....he cares more about his mates then you it looks like so you go out with the girls the next time he plans something and see how he likes it....though probbaly not the right way to do it but it might open his eyes or maybe he is going out with the guys to slowly break it off with you or to piss you off so you break it off with him so he dont have to
2006-09-30 04:53:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would say you need to look for another bf. If it's been months, obviously he prefers his mates to you. Some men are stupid.
2006-09-30 04:52:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
no your not wrong. But that desnt mean you have to sit at home tonight go out with your friends and maybe go to the same place hes going.
2006-09-30 04:49:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ummm YA! if its been awhile since you went out together and he canceled with you i'd take that as hes trying to tell you something. you need to have a talk...
2006-09-30 04:49:42 · answer #10 · answered by Criddles 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋