I n this might be a daft question to some people,He is a trades man and will not let anyone down if they ask him to do a job for them. He works 7 days a week, mon-fri in his job then at night after work and at weekends, i work aswell we dont need the money and he doesn't charge a lot, as it friends and stuff like that that he does the jobs for.Its not that we dont need the money its nice to have a bit extra, How can i get him to say no to these jobs
2006-09-30 04:41:40 · 14 answers · asked by sexyass 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I shower everyday and i do get my t*ts out, We have a very good relationship, i think he is a workaholic if there is such a thing.He says he likes working
2006-09-30 04:46:56 · update #1
i have the exact same problem and have give up trying to change him, its the only thing we row about after 24 years together, money is his security blanket, like he tells me, at least he takes care of us, drives me nuts ....still love him loads though
2006-09-30 04:46:23 · answer #1 · answered by ginger 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Some people are like that and just need to be busy. Also I am betting he is very compassionate and a good friend to others. Tell him that he can have a weekend now and then but you want some of his time too. If he is the type that cannot sit still then start some projects together. Get the cupboards redone, build a doghouse, whatever. Also be sure to get out too and go places together. Good luck!
2006-09-30 04:48:15 · answer #2 · answered by The_answer_person 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just book a holdiday or a weekend as a surprise, and tell him he is going, as he is working too hard. People are taking advantage of his soft touch, and he needs to think of you every now and then. You should arrange for things for both of you to do, and he needs to say "I can't do it at the moment, as we are doing such-and-such."
2006-09-30 08:30:38 · answer #3 · answered by Thia 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to tell him or all that extra money he is earning will go towards paying for a divorce. Put your foot down girl tell him you need to spend time with each other. What is the point of the extra cash if you don't enjoy it together
2006-09-30 04:50:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe work is something that your "man" does well, or at least enjoys doing. All you need to do is let him understand that you need him as well. Let him know that you think it is wonderful that he works so hard, but sometimes he just needs to take a breather and spend a little time relaxing. Maybe in his eyes you two are not as financially set as you think you are. Let him know that if he eases up on work a little bit your not going to starve.
2006-09-30 04:49:18 · answer #5 · answered by liddleman101 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tough situation looks like he is obsessed with working. maybe theres a workaholics anonymous but he has to admit his addiction first
2006-09-30 04:44:10 · answer #6 · answered by jercha 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When he walks through the door on a Friday evening... put his mobile in the freezer and turn the heat up in the bedroom!!!!!
2006-09-30 04:47:20 · answer #7 · answered by mommakayos 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
just try and avoid him till he dosen't feel the difference
2006-09-30 04:44:05 · answer #8 · answered by mistique 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a man of good repute, helping others is what we were put on this earth for, please don`t try to stop him.
2006-09-30 04:47:33 · answer #9 · answered by melas 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
find hobbies or sport to do with him
2006-09-30 04:44:46 · answer #10 · answered by like_eros 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋