so i like this guy, and i think he likes me and every time i finally get the ballz to ask him hes always taken. so the other day i had a friend ask him 4 me and he said maybe so evrey day since she has asked him 4 an answer but its always the same "ill tell ya 2morrow". i think he is playin hard to get i mean last year he was goin out with my best friend and she asked him if i was ugly and if he would evr go out with me. he said he thought i was pretty and he would go out with me in high school. and all my friends would always say "he soo likes you becauz he always hittin onya" . i dont believe them. But over the summer we had some problems he found out my best friend was cheatin on him. so he asked me if i new and i said no. a couple of weeks be 4 skool started i asked him out and he said no. it hurt like a beeatch. then i asked him if he was mad @me . but he wasn't. he thought i was mad at him 4 turning me down so he ignored me. i think i'm in love i really need help i get hugs!!!
2006-09-30 04:40:25 · 17 answers · asked by ashleigh 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes you like the boy very much but he is confused to go with you or not because he liked your friend and he may still like her or may be thinking that she might come back all guys do like this .......another thing if you want him then do this talk to him look at him try to fallow what he does like sitting i class ,etc after 3 days start neglecting him dont look at him dont talk to him and trust me he will come running after you,but fallow it seriously and it will work best of luck ...
2006-09-30 04:49:20 · answer #1 · answered by goodguy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
its time to flip the script. guys really like to have a chase if some thing is to easy its not challenging enough. He already knows that you like him. Now it's time to let him see what he is missing out on. I think you should stop chaseing after him let him see you having fun, being beautiful, and other guy's will also see. This will make him pay atttention. Take care of yourself give it some time at least 20 day"s before you even talk to him agian I know that's easier said then done but if you keep asking him every day I'm afraid you will become a pest to him and he is going to start to run when he sees you coming. Its time for you to flip the script.
2006-09-30 05:08:28 · answer #2 · answered by kesiah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound too desperate! Stop trying to pursue him and let him pursue you. Your friends need to leave him alone. Just because a guy thinks your pretty, doesn't mean he's after you or interested. Ignore him for a while, but make sure he sees you around school. You need to look social, laugh allot, smile, don't make conversation with him too much.....like keep your conversations with him very brief! Let him see you around, flirt with other guys around him, but not too much, just enough to show him that your appealing. The more he sees you around him, and being social and fun, the more your likely to strike his attention. Just play hard ball.....ALL Guys love a worthy chase, so make him notice you more, and the chase will be on!
Remember....don't give in to easy....let him work for you, you're worth it!
2006-09-30 04:52:04 · answer #3 · answered by Marisa Lizette 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't want to date your bestfriend's ex-boyfriend. You're asking for trouble. They have a history and she might get jealous and your relationship with her will suffer. But, if you insist on it, I think he's playing hard to get. It also might be because of your connection to your bestfriend. He used to go out with her. Relax, do your own thing. Guys don't like girls who are trying too hard and vice versa. They want a challenge. If you start dating around and acts like you have your own life, he will probably start noticing you.
2006-09-30 04:50:38 · answer #4 · answered by Thot77 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and get to know him better. Then ask him out agin. If he says no, ask for a reason and dont settle for less. Make sure you get an answer form him. Make sure you do it not your friends. He might not belive them. If he says no! Dont worry about it. There is someone else out there for you. Dont let it get to you. I even think your cute form Ohio!
2006-09-30 04:47:41 · answer #5 · answered by James 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This one is tough because, I always would never go out with my friend's ex's... but, just go on and let him think that you are not interested in him.. he is playing hard to get or maybe, what your friend did to him is making him think hard about going with you
2006-09-30 04:45:55 · answer #6 · answered by shelly v 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u reallly reallly reallly love him ....then!! write an email and pour down ur feelings and give it to him ... with a lill note saying that if he really care su guys shud meet someplace at a particular time..if he cumes along hez urs if he doesnt then he nevah was.
All the best.
2006-09-30 04:44:38 · answer #7 · answered by lovelace 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Quit trying so hard! There are more fish in the ocean, and life is to short to waste it waiting!
2006-09-30 04:44:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you should ignore him for a while and sees what happens. Are you totally sure he doesn't like your bestfriend anymore? Good luck.
2006-09-30 04:43:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey i no how that feels lol just ggo and ask him if he would like to date u and if he says no then say ok and move on theres way better guys in the sea
2006-09-30 04:44:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋