For the past year or so I've been crazy about this guy. Whenever we get the chance to speak alone we flirt like mad, he's always touching me (non sexually) and we get on really well. I also found out that he'd been asking my sister all about me. Anyway, we met up one night when we were out with friends and ended up kissing, he then played it cool and acted like nothing had happened. After a while the flirting started again, and then on another occassion we kissed again, and were together most of the night, kissing and talking. then he played it cool again. i've tried to stay out of his way so that i don't have to speak to him, but when i see him now he's always holding my gaze and smiling and the times i have spoken to him he's still being flirty. is it that he's just a bit of a player, that he doesn't know what he wants, or that he just enjoys a bit of a kiss now and then? i really like this guy, but i don't know if it's worth getting my heart broken for. advice??
2006-09-30 04:36:05 · 7 answers · asked by Mand 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
firstly are u going to like forever talk and kiss or what? cuz if you are I beta tel u this,move on and stop wasting your time there.
the thing is u actually do know what you want but really he doesn't. he is just liking you but i guess in his thoughts if he gets into a relationship with you is hard to flirt as much as he does now and maybe he is not the guy who wants to be tied down.you are a kind of person who are clear of what you want. I rather u find someone else who can respect you for that decision.
2006-09-30 04:53:01 · answer #1 · answered by cutevina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's going to act different with you around certain people, then I don't think it's worth it. What do you think? Maybe the next time he tries to kiss you, you should stop him and talk about it.
2006-09-30 11:40:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think he wants u but not readdy cuz he might not know all the girls out there and about the kiss next time he tries stop him say "if u want a kiss there should be a realashinship'' or something like that or something that's on your mind
2006-09-30 11:40:38 · answer #3 · answered by nmehra18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a good boy, I think. He might be loving you. It is better you talk to him freely and know his mind. if he were a player, he would have made further advances.
2006-09-30 11:52:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No may be he don't want to make sexual relationship .. probably he enjoys his virginity.....
I think he likes you, Every one have different thinking.. so may be his thinking differ from urs it does'nt matter if he really loves u and u loves him......
2006-09-30 11:42:09 · answer #5 · answered by Best Answer Provider 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him upfront. "Do you or don't you want this to happen?" Your time is valuable. Don't allow him to keep bringing you through these changes.
2006-09-30 11:40:04 · answer #6 · answered by Ha Ha! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hang out with other guys until he makes up his mind
2006-09-30 11:39:33 · answer #7 · answered by jercha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋