I went away with work and tried to call my BF one evening. At that time he told me he was staying at his parents and going to bed early. I later find out that he went out partying with a girl and stayed at her flat.
Things moved on and I then found that he was texting her repeatedly - so I called her to ask her and she said they were just friends.
I have since found out that he told her that I am a psycho and that he is not dating anyone! He also still continues to meet her and lie to me about where he is. Am I a mug?
2006-09-30 03:54:30 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He wants you and her both, so do not stand for it. Tell him, he can have her and any one else that he may want to have. Stop wasting your time and energy on him. He is not going to change, May be he is not ready to settle down. So now you know the next friend you find, be friends for a while, that way you can find out what kind of person he is, in other words, take your time. Have fun, it is going to be hard at first, but you will make it.
2006-09-30 04:05:52 · answer #1 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a liar always a liar. God are you dating my ex? LOL. It never seems to change no matter how much you want it to. When I caught my ex, I got the number of this girl, did a reverse look up, had her address and everything. I was so mad. But, at that point I thought is it worth it, is he worth it? I called there instead of going there, and asked to speak to my husband. She said you mean your ex husband? I said no, my husband. He did the same thing, lied continuosly, not just to me but her too. I decided than that he wasn't worth it. I am divorced, I am with a younger guy which just killed my ex, he is still a loser that never sees his kids, and the last time he even talked to them which was 4 years ago, he lied to them too. I have been with my new guy for 4 years, and he is great, to me and my kids! My ex...not worth all the trouble. It's a sign to get out now! It might seem difficult, but he's lying to you, and her, and who knows who else. I would tell him see ya later.
2006-09-30 11:05:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you still with him? Don't you have any self-respect? Dump his sorry bu** and find a man who tells the truth. How can you possibly share this guy with someone else? Why would you continue to allow him to have both women?
2006-09-30 10:59:39 · answer #3 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick him to the curb... and get back into the swing of things... go out have fun and if he cares it will drive hime crazy seeing you not caring... players get off on seeing someone obessed with them and begging and nagging... all players need to taught a lesson... and if he's doesn't come back around be glad... you don't someone like that anyway... I assume your young... enjoy it while you can... Good Luck!!!
2006-09-30 11:03:33 · answer #4 · answered by Sandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not anything but he is the psycho.Do the next best thing other than lying back.Tell him the truth.The truth is,in a text message to him,Good -Bye!!,signed, Psycho on the loose,to do what she wants to do!!
2006-09-30 11:01:08 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you know the answer to this one, but are hoping you are wrong.
Dump this jerk! There are 8 Billion people in the world? Do you honestly believe that you have to settle for this guy? Come on, look out for yourself. It's obvious that he is.
Good luck to you. It's easier than you think.
2006-09-30 10:58:31 · answer #6 · answered by jmiller 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look dump him hes not worth it, honesty matters. but not to him. you will meet someone better, hes trying ot blame you by calling you a psycho. they are taking the piss out of you, dump him don,t even talk to him. Hes a nerd.
2006-09-30 11:02:31 · answer #7 · answered by guysmithdenise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is a mug?
Are you sure you are still dating?
Okay, just don't have anything to do with him anymore. He obviously doesn't care about your feelings. Sorry.
2006-09-30 10:56:42 · answer #8 · answered by *babydoll* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET RID OF HIM!!!!!!
You deserve better than being treated like that.Dump him immediately and walk away with your head held high,and keep your self respect.
2006-09-30 10:58:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You walk away from him.
What a complete jerk he is. DUn worry, I believe he will get his just desserts. People like that never triumph in life... so don't associate with that bugger any longer!
2006-09-30 10:59:35 · answer #10 · answered by Beth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋