I love this guy, my colleague, who is like 26 year old and I am 20. I met him at a job attactment assigned by the sch. I dun know since when I started liking him. Initally we went for some movies, we even took a photo sticker together and he hug my waist and shoulder. However,he is a foreigner who haven't had a PR in my country. Somemore when I asked him whether he liked me after some dates, he said he dun know so this means what? In order not to get hurt, I choose to give up and tell him let me friends. When I said that, on one of the dates after I told him let's be friends, he held my hand on one of the dates. However I cleverly avoided him. But I think he still know.After sometime he started to leesen contacting me.
But when he jokingly said that he is going back to his country for matchmaking and marriage. I felt pain and sad. I know now he doesn't like me like that time. And this make me realsied how important is him in my heart. All along I just run away, so wat should i do?
2006-09-30 03:20:32 · 5 answers · asked by Kyoko 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are still young. Learn to give up this relationship and carry on with your life. When you start to work you will find there are a lot more better guys in the society.I think this relationship is not fruitful and if you insist on carrying on with it, you may regret it later. In Chinese there is always such a saying "Loving someone is painful and being love is happiness" . The reationale is that when you love someone and he does not appreciate your love can be very painful. Only you know the painful yourself.
Carry on with your life. I believe you can find someone better in your life who cherish you more than himself.
2006-09-30 16:25:12 · answer #1 · answered by Forgettable 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away. This relationship is not going any where and you would be better to move on. To much time spent with someone that you love and does not love you back hurts and you can avoid the hurt by staying away and finding someone else. You will be fine and the pain will get less when you find someone else.
2006-09-30 10:26:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The man is very immature. There are things about him that you do not know. Pass on this one quickly and don't tarry.
2006-09-30 10:26:42 · answer #3 · answered by pshdsa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on with your life.
2006-09-30 10:27:41 · answer #4 · answered by Rachel Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-30 10:21:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋