I have a sister who is very cute and she loves me a lot and she is 19 and im 22.We are very close and touchy feely.I even paint her toe nails once in a way and one day she wanted me to massage her feet as she felt pain there. I gave her a good foot massage and she enjoyed it and it became a habit for both of us.On another day after i came back from a cricket match she discussed about the match with me and then again asked me to come to the couch and give her a foot massage which i did as usual but this time she played a game by asking me to tickle her feet which i did and we exchanged blows and all just like kids.But suddenly i felt hard when i tickled her feet without my knowledge and i later felt guilty.Anyway i did not reveal my feelings although still i used to lovingly fondle and tickle her feet.Is this normal feeling for me?
2006-09-30 03:20:12 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
DON FORGET that yu know she is yur sister but yur body doesn. So always keep safe distance.
2006-09-30 04:22:16 · answer #1 · answered by Rohit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The feeling guilty is because it is not acceptable for you to be sexual with your own sister. Is this the end of the world? No
You are a man and she is a woman.
It might be a good idea if you stop painting her toes, massaging her feet and wrestling about like children. These are intimate gestures and can lead to further intimacy.
Just tell her you're no longer comfortable being her masseuse. IF you are as close as you say you are then she will understand.
2006-09-30 10:51:22 · answer #2 · answered by easinclair 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are 22 or 2.
2006-10-04 05:16:28 · answer #3 · answered by gurushabad1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's one thing to play around and act like a brother and sister but there's a line you should never cross. I don't think it's okay to get a hard on though. I think you need to make it a point not to let it happen again even if you have to put distance there. If you let anything happen between the two of you that would be incest.
2006-09-30 11:02:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
In the way you have asked this question represents that you might ahve some feeling differnt than ordinary borther bcoz they dont feel or ask like that...as you are feeling guilty ,so let me tell u that a person feels guilty when he admit in his self that he ahs done somthing wrong or something which he must not...so you make yourself respectable for her and stop thinking about her in that way........
2006-09-30 10:36:00 · answer #5 · answered by stranger 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In love You have to decide : Is it sex (eros, body love) or is it sister-love.
Sister-love is one of the most sweet forms of love You ever can have!
any way that can't be bad.
Try to show Your special "relaxing" to more members of Your family and You will get their reaction!
But all together ----never bad , don't feel guilty! Only try to observer Your own reactions!
2006-10-03 20:17:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its nature. boys get excited by anything a roller coaster can make it happen. i think ur sister crossed the line by even asking you to rub her feet it sounds to me like she is flirting with u.if it made u feel ashamed later than tell her that u r not comfortable doing that anymore.
2006-10-01 04:52:39 · answer #7 · answered by shanadam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a normal feeling for a guy because she is a girl, but you have to keep in mind the fact that she is your sister and that you have to respect her. Don't allow yourself to start thinking thing that can be regarded as sick. Try to keep a regular and healthy brother-sister relationship with her.
2006-09-30 10:28:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
dude u've been too far... but then again, if u reli can't control urself, try avoiding activities dat will make u have the same thing again. else one day u may gone too far without u realising it. try to find something to distract yourself. if you still have such feelings, well dude... think u better knock urself down. if u proceed as how ur body wish... things may end up tragic...
2006-09-30 10:29:50 · answer #9 · answered by wormhead 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If iys your own sister, stop!! You are crossing the limit!! This can end up in a lot of unpleasantness. If its a cousin sister, all this can happen and probably it may progress further/ Be careful, man!!
2006-09-30 10:25:12 · answer #10 · answered by THE WORRIER 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋