Here is the story. I am a college freshman, and I believe I have a crush on this girl, who is very classy, nice, and always smiling. Both of us are in ballroom dancing club, and that's how I got to know her. I have known her for only 10 days, but I feel that she is the girl I really like. Whenever I meet her and talk to her, I try to find some common grounds and talk about them. However, I'm a little worried because I am not so humorous. I have recently noticed that some dudes have started talking to her. I can see they are trying to hit on her. My best friend tells me that they are ugly scrubs and that I should be able to "get her" as long as I have confidence. I am still worried though. I wrote on her Facebook wall several times, but she never wrote back. I wonder if this indicates her lack of interest. I know I should take some time to get to know her better, but I don't want to see someone else becoming her boyfriend. I need some advice. Thank you.
2006-09-30 03:13:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
look man , my strategy is to literally kill a girl from laughs, i make them laugh to death, u can only get there by being very very casual and comfortable, dont try to think about a joke or make 1 just if u see something funny make a conversation about it, if she tells u ur hot what are u telling to her to make her laugh and break the ice ??? think well and read the answer(i though of this joke and i would use it)...."" yeah i am so hot that i have sent 4 girls to the hospital with 3rd grade burns"" or something like that whatever
2006-09-30 03:19:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you know what is rare in this world that people treasure? Is it humor? Is it good looks? Is it intelligence? Is it dynamic personalities? These things dazzle the senses for a short time, but the thing most treasured is a genuine man (or woman). Someone who is real and open, themselves. No pretense, no arrogance, just themselves. People feel comfortable with genuine open people. So be yourself and be genuine. "When you are content to be simply yourself and don't compare or compete, everybody will respect you." - Lao Tzu
2006-09-30 10:21:57 · answer #2 · answered by pshdsa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she never wrote you back and saw what you wrote then forget about it for now...
Do you stand a chance?
Yes^!!! Sooner or Later if you keep liking her you will have a chance!
2006-09-30 10:22:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she likes you than you should not even have to try to be humorous.
After 2 children will she still be asking you for jokes? and if you are no longer humerous will she hit the bars looking for jokes?
2006-09-30 10:17:51 · answer #4 · answered by Taco 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could just tell her how you feel about her. Hopefully, that will improve things for you.
2006-09-30 10:18:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋