There might be a real physical or psychological reason for not wanting to be bound behind the back. (He might have shoulder problems or a phobia connected with that position.) In any case, given that you are consenting, he's given you a reasonable limit which you might not like but need to respect.
As a compromise, perhaps you might be able to add a little more restraint, such as either attaching the bound hands to an over-the-head post or pinioning the arms by tying a rope or belt around him, which would add some additional restraint without having to violate his limit. Be sure to discuss this with him. He might be able to explain what problems he might have with heavier bondage.
I agree that behind-the-back is a preferred position. However, it is more important to respect his limits than to fulfill your wishes in total. I wish you and your boyfriend well.
2006-09-30 11:41:43
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answered by Ѕємι~Мαđ ŠçїєŋŧιѕТ 6
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Bondage is SO much fun, BUT if he has limitations, do NOT break them. You would not want him to do you that way, right? So, he wants them in the front, you want them in the back? Go to your local adult store and in the bondage area you will find this thing that you slide under your mattress, and the ends of it will come out on the sides, you can then tie his arms straight out to the sides. The cuffs are padded and they will not hurt him at all, but he will be stuck :)
2006-09-30 02:56:21
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answered by Pretty Girl 3
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Tie each hand to the bedpost with neckties.Do not tape his mouth because you want to hear him scream and beg.Su-k him off to just the right time and stop.Let him sit there and trob. Let him know you are in charge.
2006-09-30 02:54:03
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answered by Anonymous
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Well..if your into that stuff and he knows there is a possibility that it might happen (if he is in to it) then do it.
Then kick him in the nuts, get him hard and ride him like John Wayne on a horse going into the sunset.
To each their own.
2006-09-30 02:54:02
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answered by Magicman 4
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As long as you have the agreed upon STOP words in place, go for it
2006-09-30 02:51:05
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answered by Anonymous
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YOU JUST TOLD US YOU ARE BOTH CONSENTING ADULTS.HOWEVER HE HAS NOT CONSENTED TO WHAT YOU ARE PLANNING TO DO.YOU DO THIS TO ANYONE ELSE AND YOU COULD BE CHARGED WITH KIDNAPPING.FIND A FREAK INTERESTED IN WHAT YOU ARE INTERESTED IN THEN THE WORD CONSENTING WILL APPLY.
2006-09-30 03:02:39
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answered by miraclehand2020 5
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You two sound like my kind of people! Enjoy!
2006-09-30 02:57:32
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answered by Judy L 4
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if he ties you for trying its win-win lol
just as above, as long as you know the signal for stop go for it.
2006-09-30 02:52:24
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answered by xXlauraXx 2
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I say f*ckin' go for it. It'll end in fun either way, right?
2006-09-30 02:52:16
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answered by The Lobe 5
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what are you guys planning on doing after you tie him up???
2006-09-30 02:51:33
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answered by Anonymous
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