I'm 26, shy and ugly.Almost never had met girls. I'm not saying i'm experiencing it now well kind off i am and kind of i had experienced it before when meeting foreign students, but let's say i did meet a hot beautiful girl and somehow we got into a conversation. and say we became kind of friends and we meet every weekend , but the girl just thinks of me as a friend, yet i feel so attracted and i'm going "wooow" all the time in my mind. How can i cope with the fact that i like her alot yet she doesn't( she's not attracted as i am to her), but we meet all the time.
2006-09-30 02:38:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need confidence, let me tell you there are some seriously ugly men out there but they have no problem attracting women. Why are you allowing your perception of how you look stop you from hitting the mark? Shyness can pass but you need to work at it. Come out of the box man, you can have the hot chicks to.
2006-09-30 02:49:42 · answer #1 · answered by Firebird 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason that she meets you is because you are nice and interesting and she likes you.
Don't do stupid things that will make her not like you.
I would mention that I am going to an event of some sort and see maybe if she would like to come along.
Continue to be nice and interesting. Do not focus on her or put her on the spot. Try like hell to enjoy her company for who she is and what she has to say, not just because she is a hot chick. DON'T get caught being a creep. Be yourself. Not the evil guy that wants to ravage her, the other guy who likes her company and enjoys hearing her opinion.
2006-09-30 02:47:35 · answer #2 · answered by Cattlemanbob 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't set yourself up for a let down. If she wants to be with you, she'll let you know. It's not all about looks anyway, and beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Don't be awestruck simply because she looks beautiful. That is something she can't help. She's probably been made aware of that all her life. Be something more to her than just another awestruck guy. Be a real friend.
2006-09-30 02:42:38 · answer #3 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you said you never meet girls even as friends, I would take it for what it is and enjoy her friendship. It will help you learn about woman and make you more comfortable around them. You never know, maybe she has friends she can set you up with. You can always ask her how to make yourself more attractive to the opposite sex and then she might start to be interested in another way when she sees others interested in you.
2006-09-30 02:42:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You lack confidence. There is alot of ugly people who have beautiful women.....Look at Catherine Zeta Jones hubby. Even if you think you are uglky....don't ACT like your ugly. You don't go on a job interview saying "I know I'm not a team player and I'll be late everyday but I was wondering if you can hire me but you probably won't" CONFIDENCE. I believe there someone out there for everyone if she is not feeling you just think......maybe something wrong with her. STOP CALLING YOURSELF UGLY.....THAT'S JUST UGLY.
2006-09-30 02:46:44 · answer #5 · answered by kim_mii 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey just accept what is happening to you. When you do, the right thing to say or do will come naturally, I promise. Don't worry about stuff like that because I am sure she does like you; but if you are sure otherwise then just ask her, what can it hurt because then you will know for sure and your mind will be put at ease i would imagine. IT IS WHAT IT IS. Goozfraba.
cheers darlin
2006-09-30 02:45:48 · answer #6 · answered by scully_22ps 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You hang around her because of the possibility of her being attracted to you right? You're not there just to be friends. So try to get out of the "friend zone" before it's too late. Otherwise, you could be just wasting your time
2006-09-30 02:46:53 · answer #7 · answered by []\/[]r ray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax... and let her get to know who you are inside... not offense but I dated and married a guy my friends thought was not my type "looks wise" but... we just contacted so... on so many levels that the next thing I knew "I was in Love" Good Luck!!! Darlin'
2006-09-30 02:43:53 · answer #8 · answered by Sandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just gotta be with her till she realize what she got in front of her..
2006-09-30 02:42:11 · answer #9 · answered by Henry_Tee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello. wake up. slap yourself. it is all dream......
2006-09-30 02:43:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋