I am going out with this guy. But when his other girlfriend and him are together i fell like i am left out he told me he was tring to break up with her, It seems that he likes her what should i do.
2006-09-30 02:24:18 · 32 answers · asked by Hey its Jenny 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why should he break up with her when it's very clear that he doesn't have to? Never get involved with an already involved person. Ur just volunteering for a whole lot of crap to complicate ur life. And, "trying" to break up with her", uhn uhn, no such thing.
How about, "I have a new GF and I no longer want to be with U"?
Of course he doesn't have to be this blunt about it, but come on already. It doesn't take that much effort to end a relationship. As long as u allow him access to u while he is with this other girl, u r the one who's being played.
And one more thing, he is cheating on this other girl and we all know what goes around comes around. Do u really think that u could ever trust him to be faithful to u?
U'll never have peace of mind.
2006-09-30 02:45:56 · answer #1 · answered by Timber 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would break up with him. If and when he completely breaks up with his other girlfriend then you can rethink it. But you should be the one and only girlfriend. If he is going out with 2 girls you will always wonder if he likes the other girl better - and this will make you not feel good about yourself. Good luck!
2006-09-30 02:29:07 · answer #2 · answered by suz2345 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How did you become his girlfriend when he's already in a relationship? You didn't care that he was with her because he told you he was going to break up with her? You are at fault because you put yourself in that situation
2006-09-30 02:31:32 · answer #3 · answered by []\/[]r ray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you even get involved with a guy who has another girlfriend in the first place? that kind of tells you something about him...hes a player. my advice is to get rid of him fast and find a guy interested in dating one girl and one girl only.
2006-09-30 02:33:20 · answer #4 · answered by Jenn ♥Cadence Jade's mum♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let him play you like that it's either YOU or HER. Women allow themselves to get played like this if the guy is going to be on that BS then you make up his mind for him and trust me he's not going to like the latter end of things.
2006-09-30 02:27:07 · answer #5 · answered by nabdullah2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so you mean, this guy is going out with you and some other girl, and this other girl doesnt know right?
ok, basically just tell him either he gets rid of her soon or you walk, i know its hard but he cant play you both its not fair on you and itll hurt less long term if you throw him if he doesnt listen, you have rights and cant let him walk all over you!
2006-09-30 02:32:02 · answer #6 · answered by xXlauraXx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to cut all ties with him b/c it's not going to get any better. Unless you like being the last resort, don't stick in there with the wannabee mackdaddy.
2006-09-30 04:50:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, your boyfriend will tell you a lot of things but it's all lies. Break it off and save yourself from further disappointment, you deserve better than what he is offering.
2006-09-30 02:29:23 · answer #8 · answered by Firebird 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
two things come to mind,one what are you doing with this guy in the first place! second run the other way(far away from him). find a new b/f.
2006-09-30 02:28:35 · answer #9 · answered by julie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody tries to break up with someone... they just do! So dump him, either way the drama with be over.
2006-09-30 02:27:53 · answer #10 · answered by lfaulk0 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋