I have been dating this guy who I really like. I enjoy his company. Unfortunately, he has a crazy work schedule. I would like to spend more time with him. Dinner, movies or just hanging out. His schedule has recently changed. He's off on weekend's! While we were together last night, he asked what I was doing tonight. I told he I may be going to a party. I asked why? Would he like to see a moving or something? His response was call me,"I'll be free at 8 or 8:30". I would rather be with him then go to the party....
2006-09-30 02:17:00 · 17 answers · asked by msladykm 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't spend every free moment with him. Don't change your plans for him. That's making yourself too availabe for him. He will start expecting you to make yourself available for him. Maybe you could ask him to go to the party with you, and if he doesn't want to, then make plans with him for like tomorrow or something, or even next week if that's the soonest he has available, and just go to the party yourself.
2006-09-30 02:26:43 · answer #1 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he would like to go to the party with you even for a short time. If the party starts early and he doesn't want to go - go without him and then get together later with him. This way you can do both. But I would also talk with him and see if in the future you can make plan together on the weekends - before last minute! Good luck and have fun!
2006-09-30 09:26:41 · answer #2 · answered by suz2345 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the "I'll be free at 8 or 8:30" kinda made me wonder a little bit about what he was doing. But I say go and have fun with him. Maybe take him to the party with you.
2006-09-30 09:23:31 · answer #3 · answered by Skylar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships like that are hard, I know. The thing you did wrong was even telling him you were going to a party. You should make plans with him anytime he can spend time with you.
2006-09-30 09:20:50 · answer #4 · answered by Pretty Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is the same tactic I use when I'm not interested in a girl. I use my job as an excuse. "I'm busy" or "I have to study". It saves me the trouble of having to tell her things which might hurt her feelings. I'm not saying it's the same case with you. But, I think it's a possibility
2006-09-30 09:23:57 · answer #5 · answered by []\/[]r ray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then call him at that time/but go to the party for awhile,don`t drink any booze and just hang out with friends.with he is free go over to his place,if he not free stay at the party. easy!
2006-09-30 09:23:02 · answer #6 · answered by julie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look be glad that the guy has a job and some ambition. Why can no one just communicate. Tell him how you feel and work it out.
2006-09-30 09:21:37 · answer #7 · answered by SUPERSTAR X 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you invite him to the party with you. that way you get a night out and time with him. Why can you only contact him at a certain time???Strange!
2006-09-30 09:21:26 · answer #8 · answered by pepper_brodie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
great,what else do you want!!and see life is much more than just hanging out,movies and dinners...you need to support him if you truly like him,hes working to be independant so be there for him and understand him,thats true love!!good luck!!
2006-09-30 09:19:27 · answer #9 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite him to go to the party with you when you call him.
2006-09-30 09:42:03 · answer #10 · answered by Maienca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋