OK HERE IT IS,I LIKE THIS BOY IN MY CHURCH.I TOLD HIM I LIKED HIM AND
HE WAS LIKE WELL HE HAS A GIRL RIGHT NOW BUT WE CAN BE FRIENDS WITH
BENEFITS.WE STARTED TALKING EVER SINCE,WE STARTED GIVING EACH OTHER
HUGS
AND ALL THAT.ONE DAY HALF OF THE YOUTH IN THE CHURCH WENT TO THE
SKATING
RINK AND HE HELPED ME SKATE,HE HELD MY MY HAND,AND EVEN TIED MY SHOES
FOR ME.HE WAS ALWAYS MAKING SMILING AT ME MAKING EYE CONTACTSWHEN HE
SEES ME.ONE DAY MY FRIEND ASKED HIM IF HE DIGGING ME LIKE IM DIGGIN HIM
OR
IF HE PLAYIN WITH MY MIND.WELL HE TOLD HER THAT I LOOK GOOD,IM A GOOD
FRIEND,WE DONT GO OUT WE JUST CLOSE FRIENDS.I WANT TO KNOW WHAT ALL OF
THESE ACTIONS MEAN???DOES HE LIKE ME OR SOMETHING BUT WE CANT GO OUT
BECAUSE HE'S TAKEN OR HE'S JUST NOT READY YET??"
2006-09-30 02:04:57 · 13 answers · asked by kevreana 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think he likes you but not that much,he is doing alot of good things to you so he express that he is interested,if you like him alot try to make him happy and i'm sure he will be so glad to come to you and tell u that he likes you and ask u to get out with him.don't be hurry everything is gonna be allright.
2006-09-30 02:16:40 · answer #1 · answered by wizardheart6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the direct approach is best, just ask. But if that seems too bold for your liking, look for the following signs. Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question.
1) Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?
2) Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something.
3) Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away.
4) Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
Just remember, take each moment like it will be the last. This I feel will be a good start for you in knowing. Good Luck!!!!!!!
2006-10-01 21:55:53 · answer #2 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First if he is truly church bond he should be a good person.
I warn you arytime a guy says lets be friends with benifits SAY THIS: I REALLY LIKE YOU BUT I AM NOT GOING TO BE PUT ON THE FENCE SO EITHER WE WILL GO OUT NOW OR JUST BE FREINDS FOREVER. freinds with beifts is a no no it allows him in without feeling comitted, so in other words he can pretty much have two girlfriends without you actually being one.
Allways run when you hear freinds with benifits, try to find out what he is really thinking by asking him yourself, then if he says he doesn't really like you drop him like a rock and only be his friend. If he really likes you then tell him we will be friends for now and when you and your girlfriend brake up we will go out. If that is said don't let it hold you back from other people, go have your fun and then latter you guys can get together.
2006-09-30 02:23:11 · answer #3 · answered by jessica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a church group ? And this kid is behaving like this ? not good. If he has someone he is just going to use you because he knows you like him. Find someone that does not have a girlfriend. You deserve better. Do not be in a hurry to have a guy in your life. you have lots of years ahead of you. When you stop looking your guy will show up.
2006-09-30 02:14:26 · answer #4 · answered by Here I am 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He does seem to be paying particular attention to you...
Does he act like this around his 'other friends'.
He does like you that's for sure, but maybe not in a romantic way. If he didn't like you then he wouldn't be so nice to you. And if he does like you romantically, all you can do is wait. Be yourself and a bit aloof. If he wants you he'll chase you! Good luck :)
2006-09-30 02:15:01 · answer #5 · answered by Snoopy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are many ways to like someone. i hid it for an year and now i'm going out with the one i had a crush for 2 years. i guess he does like you. oh by the way finding a mate in church is realy good.
2006-09-30 02:10:57 · answer #6 · answered by EZ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well heis honest with you,told you i have a girl firend,and wants to be friends only,BUT! with the benffits that to me is like saying yea we can have or of it but not go out with each other,what do you think? I would find a boy friend that will be with me and no strings atach.
2006-09-30 02:15:28 · answer #7 · answered by horseknickers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wudn't like u give false hopes coz he got a gurlfrend but,mayB he wanted a gud frend n sees all the nice points in u dat he doesn't see in his gurlfrend...Befriend him..he mite have a crush for u...be urself n if he likes u,he will admit it...Gud luk
2006-09-30 02:11:15 · answer #8 · answered by Glamorous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dang girl the boy already told you he has a girlfriend. You are not the one. Find your own boyfriend b4 his girlfriend cusses you out for violatin'
2006-09-30 04:59:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you have plenty of friends...and you dont NEED any more friends....Tell him what you NEED is to have your NEEDS taken care of.
2006-09-30 02:11:42 · answer #10 · answered by dewhatulike 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋