do you think it is stupid if you like a guy, u know he likes you, too but you advoid him cUZ you're shy , then he's tired and has given up approaching you and you've spent hours hating urself for being that stupid and u cant get him off your mind and u like him more everyday but now everything seems to be over??that's my situation now. i dont knoiw what to do. plz help!
2006-09-30 01:58:00 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I helped a young man (from yahoo answers), who was shy like you, now he and the girl he was afraid to talk to are dating in a matter of three weeks of coaching him. So contact me if you want advice.
2006-09-30 02:17:39 · answer #1 · answered by Firebird 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fortune favours that bold! If you thinks he's sick of you not responding to him, then you need to approach him, let him know that you are interested. Sitting back and waiting for him to try again will not work. Just dig down deep, find the courage, and make it clear to him that you like him. If he really liked you before, your chances are still good, but you need to work fast girl! Every day you worry over what to do is another day some other girl could step in and actually return his advances. If he's drifting away from you already you don't have a lot to lose by trying to get him back! At least at the end of the day you'll know you tried for him. Goodluck girl!
2006-09-30 02:05:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now, this is going to be harsh.......so please forgive me up front. Ok ask yourself this. Do you want to spend the rest of your life feeling crappy because you avoid people? If you answer NO get over yourself, stop being shy, because shy is an excuse for people who are afraid to put themselves out there to meet others. Children are SHY because they are scared and dont know people so they look to their parents to tell them who is ok and who is not. I am assuming you are over the age of 15 or so and well beyond asking your parents these things. If you cant get this guy off your mind, grow some female balls and go MEET him. Sure it might be uncomfortable, but once you open your mouth and say hello it will all fall into place after that. I am sure if hes tried and gotten tired of trying to start something with you that he isnt a jerk. He's wise enough to not waste his time. So, if you want to meet a guy and have a nice dating life, get over this shyness game and go out and allow yourself to have some fun. Dont be dominated by your fears!
Rock on girl and tell us when you meet him.
2006-09-30 02:04:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are just shy and they dont know how to react in situations like that, Well the best thing you can do is try to ask him out. Witch is hard becasue you are shy but it only gets easer!
2006-09-30 02:01:13 · answer #4 · answered by Adam D. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over your shyness and talk with him. That's the only solution, unless you choose to forget about him altogether. If it's that important, stop tormenting yourself and do something about it. Maybe it is too late, but maybe not. Only one way to find out.
2006-09-30 02:00:38 · answer #5 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmmm, nt really stupid, hapnd to a friend of mine as well. i think u oughta go talk ta him, instead of feeling sorry for urself and doing nuthn. good luk.
2006-09-30 02:06:50 · answer #6 · answered by Shameel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you truly are certain that he likes you -- you could write him a note and tell him you noticed that he seemed interested in you, but that you were afraid, because you are so shy. be straight with him, and tell him how you feel, and what you wished you had the courage to say if you had more courage.
2006-09-30 02:01:18 · answer #7 · answered by amuse4you 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
time to get some back bone and buck up. you are back to square one. so, start over and plan to tell this person how you feel and go from there.nothing ventured nothing gained!
2006-09-30 02:01:54 · answer #8 · answered by debo3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't tell him how you feel, you will always be saying to yourself " what if..." Take a chance...He might be shy too!
2006-09-30 02:02:45 · answer #9 · answered by mark s 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can tell him, that you behaved stupid, because you were in love with him or you can get over the situation.
it'll take some time, but you will get over it
2006-09-30 02:01:51 · answer #10 · answered by Katja 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋