Okay, its public record, here in Arizona, anyway.. I just typed in Arizona Dept of Corrections.. then when you get the options, pick which one, is the one he/she are in, then go from there... I know this because, I'm on the "Protection Victim's list" and I hadn't heard from them to find out if it was true that he was suppose to be released on Sept 21, and I "Freaked" because I've been so busy, I haven't had time to go to the court house to "Up-date" my "Order of Protection" but, I just went ahead and called the board people's toll-free, number, to find out when he really was going to be released... Come to find out, its not until Dec 6th.. So thank-God, I have a couple of months to update the Order of Protection.. So, this is all good !! And just made my whole day, to find out my "Abusive Ex-Husband" isn't getting out for atleast a couple more months.. He's in there because of me, and not registering his car.. He violated his probation, and was driving around in a car, with expired tags...What a Dummy!! Then he turns around and writes me a threatening letter, telling me he knew I didn't live at my mom's anymore, that I was back in CopperRidge, and if I didn't give him our address, that he would write a letter and tell the judge that he wasn't able to keep in contact with his son.. So, I gave it to him, just so he wouldn't cause me any trouble with the courts.. (That was the last thing I needed, at that time), and he's the type who would have done just that! I forwarned him, that if he stepped foot on CopperRidge that he'd just be going back to prison.. That if he wants to see his son, he has to arrange a meeting place.. And he'd better follow through with this, or I wont hesitate to call the Police again!! I'm sick of this man's abusive behaviour!! I've known him 1/2 my life, and went through "Hell & Back" behind him!! Lost so much too!! Houses, and cars, you name it I lost it, behind his sneaking around stealing from me, for his drug habits, thats why we faught so much! I loved with my whole being, but, he wouldn't quit the drugs! So, I would simply leave him, and he'd make all these promises, to "Quit" , we'd get back together, and it was all back on, as soon as he had a "Roof over his head"!! He just used me, and abused me!! We used to say, when we were kids, that we were "soul-mates" and I really feel still, like we are, he just isn't who he used to be, anymore! And so I lost my "Soul-Mate" and I feel "Cheated" you know... Because I still love this man, so very much... but he's not the same as he used to be, at all !! He's so "Controlling , so abusive, and Angry all the time" ! He was not only abusive physically, but emotionally, and verbally!!! This man had me, right where he wanted, at home, while he could do whatever he wanted, when he wanted!! So, its over, and I do so much better for me & my kids, when he's not in my life, you know... Well Good-Luck,, finding your person... Smile!!
2006-09-30 10:57:03
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answer #5
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answered by Hmg♥Brd 6
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