this question is very important for me?
if u are going out with someone you love him more than your self and he doesnt care that much about you and he asked you this question (( what do you want from me? )) what will you answer him?
and one more thing what things shold you talk about with him?
and how can you show him that your not stupied you a matuer women or big engouh to know everything?
i want real answers please
2006-09-30 01:33:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Firstly, in my opinion I wouldn't bother with him. I know you say that you have strong feelings for him, but it is not worth to be with someone who clearly doesn't want to be with you. Regarding answering his question, just ask him to be honest with you and tell you where you stand with him. Ask him if you have a future together. I can't really tell you what to talk about as that is something that should come naturally. I am not sure how well you know this chap. Conversations can range from a variety of things from hobbies to your daily life and so on. I think the way you can show him you are mature is just concentrate on your own life and show him that you don't need him to be able to lead a happy life. After all, you sound very young and there are plenty more fish in the sea. Good luck!
2006-09-30 01:45:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so many ways to respond to this.
What is it you want? That question you really need to answer for yourself and honestly.take a good look at
I would answer "I want you to want to be here"
You can only be who you are. If it is smart and mature, then that's what he will see. Big enough for ever thing is not something one is, You are after someone for one reason and he is out with you for another. The writing is on the wall ;You will get what you want or what you think you want but you are going to be hurt in the process.
2006-09-30 10:48:01 · answer #2 · answered by livelovelaugh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You love this person very much but he doesn't love you- if he did he wouldn't ask the question what do you want from me- because people who are in love with each other don't need to ask this question.
What do you want from him? To be loved back- but if he doesn't love you back there is nothing you can do to change that.
The fact that you seem so unsure about this relationship tells me that you are not as mature or big enough as you seem to think.
Learning that sometimes love leads to hurt will make you mature if you realise that you need to love yourself more than him- otherwise it will all end in tears and they won't be his!
Good luck.
2006-09-30 08:39:55 · answer #3 · answered by loobyloo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you should never love someone more than you love yourself, the best relationship can only mature if you are sure of yourself, and know who you are! If he is asking "What do you want from me" he doesn't sound too sure of anything. If he feels the way you feel about him, he would already know that answer. I wouldn't answer I would just continue to be strong minded, spend time together, lots of conversation and he will know what you want from him. Take care, love yourself, and good luck!
2006-09-30 08:37:34 · answer #4 · answered by me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy like that should be dumped, but try to stick with him, talk about alittle guy stuff, something that'll get him talking. Be the laid back person that cool girlfriend. But if that doesn't work out talk to him about this relationship and how far can this relationship take. Maybe he'll answer you.
2006-09-30 08:38:13 · answer #5 · answered by ladi_c224 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for one i would have to ask the ages, how old are you, and how old is he... sounds like yall are in this relationship for two very different reasons... how long have yall been together? if someone doesnt feel the same for you they arent going to suddenly wake up one day and feel that way, i feel you should give him space and try to find something else to put your mind on, if he cares for you then if you arent just at his beck and call then maybe he will make sure you know it, but if he dont then it is better to find that out sooner than later... dont sell yourself short, dont allow yourself to be used...good luck to yall
2006-09-30 08:40:41 · answer #6 · answered by browneyedmomof3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stick to him
don't leave him
but 1 thing ur man is a fool, and he doesn't even have feelings so leave him
i would never like such a guy who responds such a rude way
u can talk about movies, music, mobiles phones, politics(so boring), personal lives can also go the change to love matters and will go smooth
2006-09-30 08:43:54 · answer #7 · answered by Gamesr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you want a mature person that totally loves and respects you. It doesn't sound like you have that with this person. I would move on and find someone who truly deserves you. Good Luck!
2006-09-30 08:35:56 · answer #8 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
read a book
2006-09-30 08:34:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. I will not obey this quetion or....Kiss him
2. romance, of course
3. punch him
2006-09-30 10:38:25 · answer #10 · answered by Yuki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋