why cant i find a young military man to have a relationship with?
2006-09-30 01:26:47 · 16 answers · asked by felix 2 in Politics & Government ➔ Military
I don't know. Back when I was young and single the hard this was finding a girl who wasn't a dope smoking anti-military hippie. Either I was born too early or you came too late. Good luck, I am sure that if there is a base nearby you can find a good guy for you.
2006-09-30 03:12:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, I think you just asked the Million$ question. I never had a problem finding single Army guys because I was one for 5 years. While I was in the Army I was always looking for the single normal military girl. I was on an Army post in the middle of Germany and I did not like German women. Put it this way, depending on where you live, military men may be non-existant. If you live near an Army post good luck, they are all deployed. Chances are a good portion of them are married. The military has a culture of young marriages. Privates come in the Army suddenly have a paycheck and a place to live and they immediately go marry their high school sweetheart to keep from living in the barracks.
Many of the guys are very busy and work odd hours. Many are too busy hanging out at the local club or bar getting drunk. Do not get involved with the drunk horny guy. You are playing with fire and the reasons are too many to explain. Just trust me, i've seen it a million times.
Good luck and dont date a bunch of military guys in the same social circle or from the same unit. I trust I don't have to fill in the details on what this will do to your rep even if you are a perfect angel.
2006-09-30 03:50:02 · answer #2 · answered by SL 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Young, single military men are either on base working overtime or getting sleep or out drinking and carousing. Hang around bars near bases and you will find what you want, although why one would want to find such a man who has more important things to be concerned with than a steady, is beyond me. Also, we don't announce that we want a relationship with a military man and then go out hunting; we develop a relationship with someone we come in contact with in school, work, church, or in an accident, etc. You apparently have a fixation on uniforms and that is dangerous. It is the quality of the person wearing the uniform that is the only important thing.
Otherwise, start hitting the bars. Sorry.
2006-09-30 01:32:51 · answer #3 · answered by ALWAYS GOTTA KNOW 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
some young military men aren't interested in relationships. they work all the time, they deploy every other year. it takes time to establish a relationship. most of the single guys around here go bar hopping, clubbing or playing sports. try those places.
2006-09-30 01:47:44 · answer #4 · answered by haikuhi2002 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you're asking the position to locate adult men interior the militia? nicely, in case you could positioned 2 and 2 mutually, why no longer go searching significant militia installations? that isn't a complicated theory to entice close. even if, i visit furnish you with a caution….in case you're looking for for the uniform, you'll finally end up dissatisfied. militia relationships are hard work. in case you're falling for Hollywood pictures of the uniform, you'd be taken aback once you recognize the quantity of deployments and time aside. you'll desire more beneficial than an “allure” to uphold a courting. I actual imagine the ratio of unmarried to married interior the militia is proportionate with the overall inhabitants of the U. S. interior a similar age determination. those interior the militia (male or lady) stay especially conventional lives and date, marry or stay unmarried as they favor.
2016-10-16 02:56:44 · answer #5 · answered by doreen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look near military bases!
2006-09-30 01:30:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
First of all, the Active Duty force has duty requirements of 24/7 -- and our shifts do swing from week to week, and we do not have a standard 8 hour work day -- we also have to meet the PT requirements, apply and finish our continuing education requirements, work towards our college and post-graduate educations, meet deployments overseas, work when recalled (even in off duty hours, etc.
2006-09-30 02:15:48 · answer #7 · answered by sglmom 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try writing letters to the troops , some will write back and you get to know them before meeting them .
You'll find They can be almost painfully honest about things like relationships with the opposite sex .
Horny , YES.
Timid , No .
2006-09-30 02:05:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
b/c sweetie there all over sea's in iraq fighting.... And it's hard for them men to trust anyone after going through all that. Don't set ur sights on JUST military men...
2006-09-30 02:03:51 · answer #9 · answered by Kimberly 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are probably not hanging around the best places to meet them. Put on a nice cotton summer dress, and try hanging around the docks when the ships come in.
2006-09-30 01:31:13 · answer #10 · answered by Clown Knows 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋