2006-09-30 01:04:34 · 16 answers · asked by aaa77065 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow tough one.
Most people will tell you to leave this person if your not happy.
But a friend of myne had almost the same problem, he left his girlfriend when he was not happy and thought he would find some one else. He did but it turned out he regrets that decision and he wish he just tried harder to make it work.
My point is that some times you don’t know your in love until its to late. And you might regret making the wrong decision when leave that person.
So just try to be happy and give it time. If gave it time and thought about it and still feel unhappy leave the person.
2006-09-30 01:54:20 · answer #1 · answered by Jack s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel for u b/c I'm in the same situation at this time. And I know u've got alot of leave him answers are get out of the relationship. But from one person to another who's there with you. U know as well as I do. It's not just that easy. There is something there that is still holding u 2 together. As in my situation. But I'd say look for the perfect time to tell him/her. And the other person will be heartbroken. But before u go telling the other person make sure u have ur plan layed out. The why's and the reason's b/c all those questions are gonna come up.. Best of luck to you... Hope things look up!!
2006-09-30 01:12:43 · answer #2 · answered by Kimberly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because a relationship isn't supposed to be what makes a person happy. A relationship, at most, can distract a person from those unhappy feelings inside, but a person has to get down to the source of the unhappiness and resolve it, find the peace inside (rather than lay them on someone else's shoulders). Otherwise, even the relationship is in danger at some point.
2006-09-30 01:08:46 · answer #3 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Then, you are with the wrong person. However, your partner isn't responsible for your happiness, you are. If you don't feel like you can be truly happy with them, then you need to be honest with them. Save you and your partner more hurt in the long run and leave now. If it is something that is lacking in you, maybe you shouldn't be in a relationship at the moment. However, every aspect of life has its ups and downs. You need to determine if this is one of those times or if it is going to be a continual thing. If so, do yourself a favor and get out.
2006-09-30 01:10:38 · answer #4 · answered by blackwidow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you are in a serious relationship or believe that you are, Doesn't make it real.
Having feelings, sharing love building a life together.
its just serious not the real one for you.
Some choose that , thinking or believing that why gamble, serious and comfortable work.
Others want that and more. The passion, The heat that keeps them alive and knowing that each other wants to be no other place on earth.
2006-09-30 01:34:48 · answer #5 · answered by livelovelaugh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's hard to answer. How long have you been in this relationship? Why are you not happy? But the fact remains that you're not happy. End it and move on.
2006-09-30 01:08:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
only you can do anything about that. But chances are if you're not happy the other one is picking up on it. Clear the air and see what you want to do.
2006-09-30 01:08:26 · answer #7 · answered by leah 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You basically realise its passage of time that has caused this boredom to come in. Now u both know each other so well that there is nothing new left to explore.
Either live with it, or try to make it more exciting. But, if u exit out of relationship, same thing will creep in ur other relationship as well
2006-09-30 01:07:21 · answer #8 · answered by cuteteddy761 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are not happy most of the time it may be time to cut your looses and end it. If like everyone you have doubts and worries every now and then, well, this is life. Apart from Hugh Hefner, I dont know anyone in a relationship who is happy all the time.
2006-09-30 01:09:45 · answer #9 · answered by marcus p 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take some time for yourself, maybe routine tires you, or maybe that's just not what you want anymore...write a letter to yourself, write what you think could make you happy at this time and start trying to live everything you wrote down...Works with me:)Give it a try!
2006-09-30 01:10:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋