But when you have a girlfriend, they all seem to wanna be with you? its not like they know you have a girlfriend! Do u reckon its a subconscious confidence thing, that girls pic up on that and find you more attractive?
2006-09-30 01:03:25 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im in a steady relationship and even when Im not out with my gf, the girls seem to want me, even tho I act the same as when I did when I was single! Its frustrating, because it seem to bethe girls I could never think about getting when I was single.
By the way, man on the moon, you're as subtle as a brick using other peoples answers in the hope that I vote yours best!! Cheers to the rest of you tho!!
2006-09-30 01:25:52 · update #1
If you are in a relationship then is seems that you are good and decent. Good boyfriend material maybe excellent husband material. That is what every girl is looking for. But if you are not in a relationship it's like ok what's wrong with him?, Why doesn't he have a girlfriend? You understand.
2006-09-30 01:07:50 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be because you are less threatening when you are attached, so they ACT more comfortable. Most girls are chicken people always seem to want what they cant have and because girls get turned on by men who already have girls around them or have a girl friend.
that's why girls are never satisfied and often end up alone. If you are in a relationship then is seems that you are good and decent. Good boyfriend material maybe excellent husband material. That is what every girl is looking for. But if you are not in a relationship it's like ok what's wrong with him?, Why doesn't he have a girlfriend? You understand. it's like buses mate, whenever you want one, there isn't one, then three come at once.
People find curious a thing that they cannot have. What is there? What treasure am I missing out on?
The greatest success I've ever had with women is when I sent the signal...I'm not looking. People are naturally curious. Be a mystery.
Don't even try to understand women. It is a futile task. Just enjoy them when you can and avoid them like the plague other times. I use the wide birth therory when dealing with women .
2006-09-30 08:16:13 · answer #2 · answered by Man on the Moon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cos They Know Your Looking. Its Calld Hard To Get
Swishhh 2 Points
2006-09-30 08:30:49 · answer #3 · answered by Romeo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People find curious a thing that they cannot have. What is there? What treasure am I missing out on? The greatest success I've ever had with women is when I sent the signal...I'm not looking. People are naturally curious. Be a mystery.
2006-09-30 08:08:57 · answer #4 · answered by RM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because when you dating someone, you have got an attitude of not wanting to pickup a lady, now that you single it showz and make men look desperate, so advise go out there have fun, the lady loving your vibe will soon join you. Just dont go looking for a someone......
2006-09-30 08:15:09 · answer #5 · answered by Vman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls like it when a guy is confident and it jut happens that you are at your most confident when you are with someone, because you are looking for someone you dont look like much fun.
if you go out with the intention to have fun rather that pull, im sure the ladies will be flocking around!
2006-09-30 08:16:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theirs a song about this, except in a reverse situation. I can't think of the name of it off the top of my head.
Heres the deal.... When you are in a relationship, how you carry yourself, and how you view yourself is usually different from being in a relationship, then not being in a relationship.
When your in a relationship, your more cheerful, you hold yourself in a much better way, and you hold yourself with higher confidence.
When your not in a relationship, phycologicly your not as happy. Prove fact. Your not as productive when you are not in a relationship. You hold yourself differently. Like your not as confident with yourself.
2006-09-30 08:28:06 · answer #7 · answered by Brandi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it`s definitely a subconscious thing that woman pick up on and find very attractive in men! lets be honest,no one wakes up every morning feeling good about themselves! there has to be a source of inspiration,for me that comes from knowing that someone likes me for who i am regardless! that has to be a huge confidence booster!
2006-09-30 10:50:19 · answer #8 · answered by CHARLIE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't even try to understand women. It is a futile task. Just enjoy them when you can and avoid them like the plague other times.
2006-09-30 08:09:08 · answer #9 · answered by super stud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i disagree ive been looking for some1 but they all cheat on me or because im a single mum they dont wanna know
2006-09-30 08:10:10 · answer #10 · answered by blacktiger33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋