My situation is as follows. a month ago I started a computer class and I kinda fell in love with my teacher( he's in his late 20's, I'm 24). At first he didn't give me any signs that he might feel the same. After a while, I think I sensed something from his part, too. But he didn't ask me out or anything. Today I found out that he might not teach to our class again, he was replaced. Now, I have his e-mail address. Do you think I should start communicating w/ him this way, at first asking him whether he'll teach to our class our not? I don't know if he has a girlfriend or not...I really don't know what to do and also I wouldn't want to make a fool of myself. help....
2006-09-29 23:55:21 · 14 answers · asked by pope1882 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Good idea stoned.
2006-09-30 00:01:31 · update #1
Nice answers, guys.
2006-09-30 00:02:22 · update #2
Ok, my bad, I'm not "in love" I just have a crush on him. :)
2006-09-30 00:04:02 · update #3
I would email him only to see what went wrong, or just to say you will miss im teaching, but he could have stopped teaching because he felt that you liked him and for him to stay out of trouble he chose not to teach your class anymore. He could have a fiance or a girlfriend that he really loves and you were testing his strength to hold back. Now it could be that he liked you also and wanted to ask you out but knowing he is a teacher he couldn't do that, so he stopped and maybe he will contact you! Either way just make sure you are ready for anything he says. Just a simple email letting him know that you will miss him teaching, and that you really like him in your own way! Just be prepared for anything and that way your heart won't get broke!
Always Wishing You Luck!!!
Amy
2006-09-30 00:09:50 · answer #1 · answered by heart2heart27958 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 03:44:29 · answer #2 · answered by roedel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you email him, keep it short and casual. You don't want to seem stalkerish. Ask him what happened...or why he's not teaching the class. See how he responds. If he's concise and doesn't sound intrested, leave it at that. If he gives you something to work with, then keep talking to him. After you put the ball in his court, back off and see what he does. It's a matter of wait and see.
2006-09-30 00:01:05 · answer #3 · answered by Kbailey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm... complicated thing honey :) i think may be just send him a nice far warded mail.. if he replies to it then bingo!! stat rt the conversation .. slowly and slowly ask him about his gf too.. well at least start vid friendship .. if u really don't wanna make fool of yourself don't just ask him abt why he is not taking the class and all thought i don't find anything Wong in it either,... but see what ever suits u .. all the best
2006-09-30 00:01:31 · answer #4 · answered by gorgeous girl . 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feeling like a fool right now is nothing compared to the regrets you might have later for never having tried.
2006-09-29 23:59:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just a thought... maybe you could start being friends.. its ok if you email him. asking why he wont teach the class anymore.... if he replies, that will be a good start. i guess he reply, nothing's wrong with asking why he was replaced. its better to know him first.... good luck...
2006-09-30 00:14:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should email him, first asking him if hes really being replaced, and if he is then tell him ur disapointed cause you really enjoyed going to his class. and from there maybe he will start a conversation or you could even. dont be to shy or he might slip away. good luck.
2006-09-29 23:58:36 · answer #7 · answered by stoned 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you might email him and see where it goes....and if he really liked you to then maybe things will work out...in ways it will be better because he is not your teacher now...so give it a shot and see where it goes...i would not say anything though that would embarrass yourself...just tell him you miss him and wander if you could meet him somewhere and talk or whatever,,,
2006-09-30 00:09:40 · answer #8 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st of all u cant fall in luv wit somebody u dont know. and secondly "yea" go ahead and email him or you'll just end up staying in suspicion
2006-09-30 00:02:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
email him and ask why he isn't teaching anymore. then ask if he would like to meet for coffee. then go from there.
2006-09-30 00:11:32 · answer #10 · answered by kimj g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋