I have nothing good in my life and bad things have heppened. It hasn't bothered me a lot but now it's building up. I tried talking to my cousin, the only person i thought i could trust, but she kinda pushed me away for the first time. She said maybe i enjoy feeling lonely etc...but it's not true. She didn't even offer help. Now i'm stuck...i have no one to talk to. I don't even have things that normal teenagers have and i'm afraid that i will have nothing but bad memories to look back on. My parents are divorced, I live with my cousins and my dad(who's always working) and my mum doesn't even want to talk to me (she used to abuse me when i was younger). I've went through all the types of abuse and i really can't speak to my father about how i feel. My cousins (sisters), they have such a bond and know so many people nd ppl know dem. Then you get me, who's ugly, untalented,unpop and lonely and the best part is that no one want's to listen not even my cousin who knows everythin bout me.
2006-09-29 23:14:26 · 10 answers · asked by Blair Waldorf 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
hey =)
i think that everything that you are going through is because you are a teenager........ i am a teenager and i went through the same thing not long ago...... i felt really depressed about things and i didnt know what to do and i felt that no one was there for me ...but as they say "God dosnt close a door without opening a window" .... if you think negatively you are going to get negative results but if you think positive you are going to get positive results and good things are going to happen to you. If your cousin didnt want to listen to you its probably because she/he had some things on there mind....and dont ever put yourself down by saying that you are ugly...everyone is beautiful in their own way no matter what....
there are many things that you could do to meet people..... go out places or if you cant go out then make internet friends (msn and yahooo chat) and that way you could invite them to your house...i know you could do it
i hope everything works out for you in the future and good luck with everything just remember that you have to think positive, forget what has happend and focus on the good things that are coming your way.
once again GOOD LUCK IN THE FUTURE =)
p.s keep smilling, impossible is nothing you could do anything you put your mind to
email me if ou need any furthur help i would be more then happy to help and seing as i am your age i would know what you are feeling more....
mzdunnoanyfin@yahoo.com
2006-09-29 23:41:05 · answer #1 · answered by mzdunnoanyfin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My life was very similar growing up so I know what you are going through. Popularity although right now is important but years from now when you look back you will see how unimportant it is. You have to start by loving you. I'm sure your not ugly or untalented at all. We all have talents unfortunately my biggest one is crossing my eyes :-). Go to your school counselor and ask about teen support groups (assuming your a teenager) Believe it or not you are not alone in this there are others going through similar if not worse things. I have an ear you can e-mail if you ever need someone to talk to. I am not a purve I honestly understand. Stay up and my God give you the eye to see how beautiful you really are. There is a singer named India Arie who sings about empowerment. In one of her song she says:
I release all disappointments
From my mental, physical, spiritual, and emotional bodies
Cause I know that spirit guides me and love lives inside me
That why each day I take life as it come.
2006-09-29 23:31:02 · answer #2 · answered by D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I may not have been through all u had to go through, but i understand the feeling of not having good things in ur life..feeling down, with nothing good to look forward...just surving from day to day...but then things started changing and looking up. i realised that there are things in my life that i cant change...at least not right now...i thought i'd lost precious things but then learnt that what made me really happy were the ppl who were in my life..dont give up hope...go out and get urself new friends..ppl who care abt u, but also be careful...ur in a dark phase of ur life but if u give urself a chance, u'll make it through...Have u tried praying?
I know I'm a total stranger, but if u need a penpal, contact me...I've been through depression and stuff and trying to get back on my feet...by the way have u tried seeing a psy? It could help.
2006-09-29 23:32:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are depressed find someone to talk to. You can talk to me I am on Yahoo messenger a lot. I am majoring in psychology and I am good at helping people. You can just email me if that interests you. With your cousins, if they don't want to be there for you they are not very true to their cousin and that is not right. I know how you feel about parents being divorced. My parents got divorced when I was eight year old. I am twenty now and it still bothers me, but I just moved on. They are better without each other. If you need to talk you can email me at samantha.jmckinney@yahoo.com. Thanks.
2006-09-30 04:21:41 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can undestand where your coming from to a certain point. my life hasnt been to bad but ive been through some of that stuff and other things that are bad but in a different catagory. but sometimes the best person to listen is someone who you dont really know. this might seem weird but if you ever need someone to talk to, if you ever feel to lonely and just need to get something off your chest, you can email me. im not judgemental and im a good listener, i promise. my email address is bong_shacks@yahoo.com. so good luck with everything and ill be looking forward to getting an email from you maybe:)
2006-09-29 23:56:21 · answer #5 · answered by stoned 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
family does seem to fail us sometimes when we need them....but i think if you would you should seek counseling..you put yourself down so...but i know for a fact there is some good things if you would just think about it....do not call yourself ugly...and get out of the situation you are in...i do not know how old you are but there has got to be a way to change your living situation...if your cousins do not care enough to even listen to you...that is bad but i had the same thing happen to me..i get depressed a lot to but i am on medicine and it is best to seek help if you would....
2006-09-29 23:22:32 · answer #6 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 06:02:06 · answer #7 · answered by titman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jennifer........ As God has given you life, it is up to you to change it, the surroundings, the people you associate with, maybe the way you dress. Get involved with group settings, church groups etc. If you want to be accepted by society, you have to display a positive outlook and character to others, because the world is getting a to be a harder place to live and people want to associate with positive people to give them hope. As for your past problems, put them on the back burner and go forward and dont bring them out to everyone you meet. Life is given to enjoy.. and to enjoy with people...Good luck Jennifer
2006-09-29 23:19:40 · answer #8 · answered by Mike 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
JENNIFER, YOU ARE TO HARD ON YOURSELF. EVERYONE HAS SPECIAL TALENTS OR GIFTS. SEARCH YOURSELF FOR YOURS. FORGET YOUR PAST THE BEST YOU CAN. DON'T LET IT DETERMINE YOUR FUTURE! I USE TO FEEL LIKE YOU WHEN I WAS YOUNGER. I REALISE THAT HAPPINESS IS A CHOICE. I CHOOSE TO BE HAPPY NOW. EVERY MORNING WHEN I WAKE UP I SAY THIS IS GOING TO BE A GREAT DAY! IF SOMETHING BAD HAPPENS I GO ON. YOU MUST MOVE FORWARD. YOU DESERVE LOVE AND RESPECT SEEK IT DAILY. I WISH YOU ONLY THE BEST. REMEMBER YOU ARE A GOOD PERSON!!!!!
2006-09-30 01:15:04 · answer #9 · answered by MAJOR JIM 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its got to do with you. Change yourself. Go talk to people. Just think that whatever they say you don't care.
This world is like that. They always try to put you down. Get up.
2006-09-29 23:29:54 · answer #10 · answered by Mr Business 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋