2006-09-29 23:13:11 · 21 answers · asked by ShyGuy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends on what type of foreplay you're talking about...
If you've already turned the person on and they're "ready" for you, it can be too long and your lover can get bored or even tired and sleepy.
But, if you're building up to that moment to when the time is "perfect" and you're really enjoying each other's company and the things around you, then it's okay.
But a lot of times PROLONGED FOREPLAY equals a not so impressive climax during play - if you even get one at all.
DzL
"The Player's Lifestyle"
2006-09-29 23:25:24 · answer #1 · answered by mo2dajizzo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically, foreplay is required to get necessary arousal for both partners for having good enjoyable sex. There does not exist such term as 'Prolonged' foreplay. You ideally should do it till both of you are READY, if you want to do it for more time even after you are READY and are enjoying the foreplay itself or doing it to derive more mental plasure in 'looking forward' to it, go ahead ,do it.
It,s advisable.
2006-09-29 23:39:32 · answer #2 · answered by Raj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see any problem in prolonged foreplay as long as it stays interesting and you're both having a good time.
2006-09-29 23:21:49 · answer #3 · answered by 31flavors 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as it is good it is. Usually I like to use the 15 minute rule of thumb. Take 15 minutes of foreplay to get her all hot and bothered before you go to intercourse. The old saying goes, "Gotta warm up the oven before sticking in the meat" LOL
2006-09-29 23:21:22 · answer #4 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Over all effect of love making is personal satisfaction of mind and body. There's no rule book for this game.
Do what ever u feel like (as long a natural resistance does not come from other side).
2006-09-30 00:22:01 · answer #5 · answered by ramlal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the foreplay is being performed on you, your balls could turn blue and fall off.
Hope this helps.
2006-09-29 23:20:29 · answer #6 · answered by Dr. Drew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure why not,, unless you reach orgasm too quickly,, or he cant keep it up ,, then it would become a problem,,, a good 15 min or more forplay should be cool, unless you or he require longer stimlulation to get to peak performance,,,its your relationship,,, endulge a little and test the limits
2006-09-29 23:17:07 · answer #7 · answered by John C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why drag it out? Who could sustain that kind of tension? I guess if it is mutual you can do what you want. I personally see no harm in it, if your partner is agreeable.
2006-09-29 23:18:14 · answer #8 · answered by mad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what we are talking about, I like for a guy to flirt with me all week before asking me out....but
in the bedroom I like it to a point and then I just want to..............
2006-09-29 23:17:05 · answer #9 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but softly with massage oil, when she is feeling bodypain or headach, tiredness.
2006-09-30 00:39:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋