I am from a very conservative family, infact my wife also, and we are newly married, i am not sure wether my wife is happy with me in my sexual life. i have intercourse daily three times everytime is even longer and longer. we are indulged in sex for more than a hour sometimes she says to stop as if she gets pain.
i am worried that is she happy with me as we are from a conservtive family she will not say. and she juices a lot during sex but at the end she will be dry for the first half an hour she will be juice like nothing. i dont know wether she orgasms or not please any one help me out.
2006-09-29 22:53:32 · 5 answers · asked by syed 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
I think the easiest way to tell is to ask her for some feedback about how to improve. Come clean and state your issue:
In bed - having a cuddle - just come out with it
"Honey, I am wondering what I can do to make things better."
It's much more difficult to know if a woman orgasms. If she appears to orgasm and perspires noticeably you can be pretty sure she has. Otherwise, who can tell?
I'd like to think they are unable to hide a good orgasm *shrugs*
2006-09-29 22:59:13 · answer #1 · answered by Orinoco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 times a day for an hour each time??? I'm sure she is dry!! And do either one of you work, and when? I'm a very sexual person, and an hour long course happens about once a week. Then there's a couple of others throughout the week, 2-3 in a WEEK not a day! Your going way to far with the sex. I'm sure she probably isn't having an orgasm, she's telling you to stop 3 times a day...what don't you understand!
2006-09-29 23:05:36 · answer #2 · answered by dolphinroc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To a woman it is different. If she is 100% sure that you love her, and care about her, and think about her all of the time, if you kiss her when not having sex, if (the super big one) you listen to her problems and fears, just listen, and repeat what she said in your own words so she knows that you heard, and don't neccessarily rush to fix it, but just hold her and comfort her...before God you will know love like the poets write about...don't count orgasms...
2006-09-30 02:13:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sure are a lucky guy, but I guess that being newlywed you have all the energy.
Why not ask her though? Marriage should be based on trust ...and honesty. "Darling, I want to please you, do you think we are making too much of a good thing here?"
Keep in mind though that if you have too much of a good thing it soon becomes cloying and after a time you don't want it anymore.
One question though, if you are newlyweds that means you are young and you work, so how do you find so much time to be in bed? (smile)
2006-09-29 23:03:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anthony F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is getting sex three times a day she should be happy, if she isnt then that is her problem not yours......
2006-09-29 23:00:23 · answer #5 · answered by Mintjulip 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋