Ok. this is a bit shocking for me. i just slept with my ex. he has a girlfriend of over a year. my boyfriend and i just broke up like a week ago and we were together for like a year. my ex and i were high school sweethearts. dated for 2 years. then college came and we did our own thing but were on and off for a while. then we both got serious with other people. we talked tonight and decided to meet up to hang out because it had been so long. but deep down i think we both knew. he said he just wanted to get it out of his system. and he really loves his girlfriend but he wanted to be sure. he said he wanted to be with someone one more time. and i was the only girl he ever loved. i cant believe this happened. so unexpected and so weird. what do you think?
2006-09-29 22:49:56 · 16 answers · asked by amtech33 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the ex im talking about that i dated for 2 years etc is the one a slept with who has a girlfriend
2006-09-29 22:55:08 · update #1
I was the one who called him
2006-09-29 22:59:15 · update #2
I think it would be hard, but he is the ex. You should not have since he is dating someone. He said he wanted to be with someone once more. Sounds like a one night stand with someone familiar to me.
He should not have since he loves someone.
2006-09-29 22:54:09 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're on the rebound, and trying to grab past memories as a means of a security blanket. Here's something to think about. If he, while having a steady girlfriend, would sleep with you, what would stop him from sleeping with somebody else if you two ever got back together?
2006-09-30 05:56:03 · answer #2 · answered by rhino 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd give up anything in the world just to sleep with my ex for one more time.. listen if your feelings for him are coming back you're in trouble just avoid him and try not to let it get to you..otherwise just think of it as a nice thing and put it away with the rest of your memories of him. but you know something i think he took adantage of you (he loves his girlfriend but he wanted to make sure) i think he was just horny
2006-09-30 05:59:16 · answer #3 · answered by dmtk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do I think??? I think it's cool, we have to consenting adults over here,whatever u two decide to do is ok, dont obsess over it so much, you didnt cheat anyone, u didnt commit a rape and didnt sleep with a child, so I guess its fine
2006-09-30 05:54:39 · answer #4 · answered by virgodoll 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to much to think about. Meaningless sex for him. I wouldn't worry about him wanting to get back with you. He said it took having sex with someone else to realize he wanted to stay with his gf. That makes perfect sense. Good thing you were there to help him figure it out.
2006-09-30 06:04:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that ur lucky, some people just go on with life wondering. Ya'll two just solved ur problem, no worries.
2006-09-30 05:52:55 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds exciting.
2006-09-30 05:59:41 · answer #7 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently he doesn't love his GF as much as he thought. And you are now available....Sit and chat with him to see where things really lie...
2006-09-30 05:54:45 · answer #8 · answered by BITE ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for one i think he just plain used you honey. for two i think he just wanted to get laid and his girl wasnt accessible at the time he wanted it. but like i said babe you got played.
2006-09-30 05:56:27 · answer #9 · answered by snow19752006mary 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am so confused that I stopped thinking
2006-09-30 05:52:03 · answer #10 · answered by dexterincanada 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋