i talk to a guy on msn hes 15 and im 16. both our birthdays are in october. at first when we started talking we were just normal friends but now after months of talking he says he loves me and wants to meet me and ect.
i dont know what to do or say i dont wanna be mean to him he seems genuine. what do i do??
i live in victoria and he lives in perth.
please remember im being serious if your answer is going to be rude or degrading in any way dont bother answering i have no problem with reporting you.
2006-09-29 22:38:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont plan to meet him or start a relationship im just curious as to how i go about the situation.
2006-09-30 19:43:03 · update #1
Krystal, be weary of meeting people online! You don't always know if they are who they say they are! Take a group of people with you (if possible, a brother or another guy) if you decide to meet him and do it in a VERY public place! Many child predators find their victims in chat rooms. Please be careful!!! I'm not kidding, you can look up many articles on this and how some people take long periods of time to finally meet their victim and then kidnap/rape/molest/kill them.
2006-09-29 22:45:45 · answer #1 · answered by ~*~Feelin' Froggy~*~ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just a couple of things Krystal personally I think you are too young to be thinking about a long distance relationship, there is a lot of distance between Perth and where ever you live in Victoria. Secondly, unless both of you are working and earning your own money I don't think either your parents or his are going to fork out big dollars for the two of you to meet even if it was to be half way, I am sure they would want to be there with you to make sure you were safe.thirdly as others have mentioned you cannot be 100% sure he is who or what he says he is. Be very careful if you do get the opportunity to meet up. What will you both do after you meet?? go back to your respective homes and continue to chat via MSN. I think that if you both like each other so much continue being friends, chat via MSN and give it more time to see how things develop. It may take some time but hey I have been chatting with my wife via MSN for the last 2 years (she lives in another country)
2006-09-29 23:04:00 · answer #2 · answered by AussiePete 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I met my fiancee online when I was 17 and she was 14....Now a couple years later, we are doing quite well....I think you need to see him on webcam or something, that way you can see if he is real and if he really looks like a 15 year old, I think our hearts our something that we cannot control...Everything that is good comes from our hearts and if you think he is genuine he may be but remember the possibilities that he may not be who he says he is! I say find out proof, and see where it goes from there maybe call him (From a payphone) that way you can hear his voice but he wont have anyway to know where you are calling from, Find a payphone in another town or somewhere far from home that way if he does track the call he cannot find you because you are far AWAY from the location, just suggestions, Blue
2006-09-29 22:48:45 · answer #3 · answered by E.F. Landeros 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know, I ve never met a person via MSN and planned to meet up with, but you might want to have some friends going with you to meet this guy, and ask him to bring over some of his. Then you d get to know know eachother in a better way.
2006-09-29 22:42:39 · answer #4 · answered by LB James 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is entirely possible that he is 15 and your soul mate...but people can be ANYTHING(pediphiles,rapists,serial killers,middle-aged men,) on-line...If you care anything about your life,you will (1) tell an adult that you are going to meet him in a VERY public place and (2)not give any private information to him about your phone # or your address.(3) not to be rude but you are 15, and you have your whole life in front of you...no need to rush the whole" I found the One" theory.Life together is much more rewarding when you know what you want as a person.What you want as a person takes a few years to figure out.That is not to say that you can't be friends and hang out ,just to say that there is no need to rush it and be serious.
2006-09-29 22:53:40 · answer #5 · answered by jeanette98070 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could easily not be 15 you realise.
He could be much older, and quite a nasty character.
Or, he could be 15 and have the hugest crush on you.
There is no way you can tell.
I would hardly ever suggest a teenager ask their parents opinion on something, but this is one of those times, talk to your mum or dad, see what they think.
2006-09-29 22:42:53 · answer #6 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I wouldn't even if he loves you.
Get to know him better and if you like him, meet him. But don't go too ahead of yourself
2006-09-29 23:28:14 · answer #7 · answered by mysterygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋