OK, I like this guy. He doesn't know it but my friend does. Lately he's been talking to me more and I've noticed him looking at me. I'm not sure if he likes me. What do you think I should do?
2006-09-29 22:19:44 · 6 answers · asked by lorna m 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
keep talking to him and flirting with him. if he does the same back then chances are he likes you too. don't change anything or start acting different. just be yourself. if he likes you, he will let you know.
2006-09-29 22:23:13 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, you dont know anything for certain, so mayb you should see if he makes a move on you before you say anything. i used to be in the same situation as you but it went over a day. what i mean by this is that i saw him for the very first time and that same day we got really close. i noticed him looking at me and getting jealous after he had jumped on top of me and got off because the rest of the guys that are his friends piled on top of me like the guys do in football. be aware that i am a girl. i didnt think about that till afterwards, and between that time i was wondering if he liked me. i got told by my good gay friend that this friend of his liked me, but i didnt really think anything of it because i knew already that my friend was trying to set us up. then soon after, the guy i liked kissed me and that was when i knew that he really did like me (he kissed me with a lot of passion and wouldnt stop until i had backed away). now i've realised that he gets shy around me and waits for me to make a move on him before he does anything, as i had seen him again another time and he always wanted me with him but didnt do anything until i kissed him when i was leaving my friend's house, whereby he kissed me back and couldnt stop smiling at me when i left, which reassured me of that. i dont think he thinks that i like him the same way he likes me if not more and not sure if he likes taking that chance. however taking that chance is much better than always be left wondering. you either have to make the first move on him or you have to talk to him about the way you feel about him without sounding obsessed with him.
2006-09-30 06:00:03 · answer #2 · answered by kristyb872001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk, flirt and touch his arm sometimes when u are talking!! he should get the hint!!! Or otherwise just ask him out ureself if u really want to know!!
2006-09-30 05:34:19 · answer #3 · answered by Simone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mayb ur told him 'bout tat already..........
Someone who sees the best in you.
If you were lucky enough to grow up with healthy parents, you have experienced the feeling of having someone who has always looked at your good qualities. Many of us missed that experience. You will be a lucky person if you have found a mate who is always looking at your 'silver lining'. Too often today people are more than willing to judge you by your errors, not by your potential.
2. Someone who gives you the benefit of the doubt.
There are so many times in your life when you need that little edge, that little opportunity to take just that extra step. It can seem as if your efforts are going nowhere and although you want to keep moving forward, there are so many negatives staring you in the face. That person who knows things could go either way for you but takes that leap to believe you will make it is the person who is more valuable to you than gold.
3. Someone who watches over you.
You need a guardian angel who is there, waiting to catch you if you fall, ready to help you when you stumble, ready to pave the way for you when you cannot get moving. There are people who love you who do just that. There are people who do not make a big deal out of saving your bacon. Do you know who they are?
4. Someone to watch you back.
You never know these days who is waiting to catch you off guard, to make sure you don't do well, to sabotage your efforts. You like to think that people will rejoice when you
do well. Many don't. If someone 'has your back' and runs interference for you when you are trying to run the gauntlet through life, give that person a big 'thanks' plus lots of your attention.
5. The person who tells you we all make mistakes.
You hate to be around that judgemental, harsh person who reminds you, 'I told you so', when things so south. You don't need anyone else telling you what you already know. On the other hand there are people who just let you know that the only way any of us learn is through experience. When you have really ended up in the dumper and blew it, stay close to the one who knows that the person who hasn't done anything wrong hasn't done anything much.
6. The person who gives you advice from the heart, not from the head.
When the situation gets rough and some big decisions need to be made, it's fine to have people outline the pros and cons of a problem and give you 'head' answers. But if you need a nudge sometimes to tip the scales, you always listen to this person who knows you must do what will let you live with yourself and have self respect.
7. The person who won't be the 'yes man' who agrees with you
No one who loves you is going to give you the green light and tell you to let er rip if it's clearly going to be bad for you. It's sad that often you surround yourself with people who tell you what you want to hear. The one who loves you will tell you to get help for a drinking or drugging problem, to stop the extramarital affair, and to be a good and decent person.
8. Someone who tells you to knock back, smell the roses, and enjoy life part of the time.
If you are a person who is a real performer and doer, there are likely to be people around you who enjoy the fruits of your labor and want you to do even more. Sometimes you may even see yourself as only valuable when you are giving, doing, and performing. Listen to the person who tells you that life is short and you need breaks and some R&R. That is the person who is looking out for you and your health.
9. The one who smiles at you and means it.
The person who loves you looks at you with eyes that smile and mean it. Too many people give you that slick smile, that quick pat on the back, and then forget that you even exist.
The eyes are the windows of our soul and you can read into a person's smile if it is saying, 'You are a fine person and I want to be with you as long as possible'. Don't fall for any phony smile that attracts you off in another direction, only to leave you stranded and alone.
10. Someone who sees you as beautiful, inside and out.
You know you aren't perfect. There are only too many examples of you looking around and thinking that you have flaws and aren't like the people on television. The person who loves you sees you through eyes of acceptance with no conditions. As you gain a few pounds and your hair gets thin, the person who sees you as attractive, inviting, and appealing is the person who loves you all the way, no strings or demands.
Nowadays, it's really important to know who loves you. Everything in our society is throw away, and many people have carried that over into the most important relationships in their lives. Think hard and look carefully. People who love you , like comfortable clothes, are easy on the heart, mind, and soul.
Hope dis will help u.........
2006-09-30 05:25:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk more to him too.
2006-09-30 05:28:11 · answer #5 · answered by Robert B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you Sexy looking...do you feel sexy...he trying to figure you out....
2006-09-30 05:24:07 · answer #6 · answered by 3-selin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋