2006-09-29 22:17:30 · 14 answers · asked by RAVEN 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've fortunately never been with what you're calling a 'psycho controlling chick'. In a relationship, priorities are utterly important. Everyone has something or the other they love doing but when you're committed, you have to make time for your loved one. In the early stages of a relationship it happens more or less automatically. If you love, understand, trust and respect each other, neither of you should feel henpecked. Every person needs his or her own space and that doesn't necessarily mean they don't love their significant other.
About being skinny and blonde...a lot of people don't know the difference between being skinny and being healthy. A healthy person is ALWAYS attractive. I encourage girls to skip dieting and start eating well and exercising. An alarming number of people can see better than they can think. Most of us just wish they could be seen with that hot chick and the thought of a nurturing relationship doesn't even cross their mind. Its a fantasy that probably lasts a few seconds and its instinct. I can't give you the statistics on how many people act on it but personally I acknowledge beauty when I see it. I might complement her on her good looks. If im single, I would probably just strike up a conversation and get to know her. If im with someone, I won't even be thinking about her for more than a few seconds because the mind always cooks up a pretty scenario. The choice between a loving wife and a family and a fling with some hot chick you don't even know is pretty obvious. To conclude, NO, being skinny and blonde doesn't override all. Just be yourself and if ur worried about your weight or something, go see a nutritionist rather than your peers.
2006-09-29 22:53:03 · answer #1 · answered by flash4484 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question. The reason why a lot of guys stay in relationships regardless of how psycho and controlling she may be is because many are afraid they will not find anyone else in their lives. They are just sticking around for the sex. There could also be children and moral issues why some stick around and let psycho chick walk all over them. It isn't a hair color or body type thing.
Having said that, this gentleman WILL NOT tolerate a woman who is overly controlling or a psycho. Been there a few times and hope I don't run into another. I believe in being the most loving and giving boyfriend a woman can have. I am also not afraid to walk on a chick if she is consistantly being disrespectful, not making me happy in every way, or my self respect is being seriously conflicted.
I have learned long ago that looks may get me interested, but it can't keep me interested. I don't care how good she is in bed. LOL
2006-09-30 05:36:49 · answer #2 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its true! I know a lot of guys with psycho women but they aren't all skinny and blonde. I think people are afraid of being alone so they will put up with almost anything rather than be in their own company. When you're young you will put up with more because its exciting & hey they might as well be hot. Then you grow up and realize that exciting relationships are bad ones. You don't know what's coming next and its all too much drama. You get tired of it and you change your ideals. A lot of women stay with psycho men because they can't stand to be alone.
2006-09-30 05:27:15 · answer #3 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This question is easy. It's because a large percent of men are believe it or not.... shallow. Selfish basterds who can't see past blond hair and tiny boobies*. But don't worry, this actually makes it easier to find the decent caring guys out there. Don't concern yourself with the guys obsessing over the latest issue of FHM er whatever, look for a good guy that will make you happy.
2006-09-30 05:25:38 · answer #4 · answered by absens_heros 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't stay with a controlling psycho chick no matter how hot she was ... it's not worth it at all, but that's just me.
2006-09-30 05:19:30 · answer #5 · answered by Benjamin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men have found that most women are control freaks, some just more so than others. When a man finds one that is not, they are in heaven!
2006-09-30 05:22:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
To guys who are led through life by their little heads rather than their big ones, yes being skinny and blonde does take precedence over anything else. *sigh* sad, I know
2006-09-30 05:20:21 · answer #7 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fear. Damn I'm sooooo glad Ive never had a controlling GF(excuse me while i wallow in joy.) but i have had a controlling date once, but being that i don't like to be told what to do (without good reason), that date ended in disaster.
2006-09-30 05:26:23 · answer #8 · answered by Seraphiel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not being controlling but being strong that they might like. Skinny and blonde, naw, thin is sometimes nice but blonde is dyed, ya know?
2006-09-30 05:22:40 · answer #9 · answered by Robert B 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Some men love it when women act like that coz it makes them feel special and wanted...ah bless their poor little souls..ha ha.
2006-09-30 05:27:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋