I lost my interest to my husband sexually.he is too boaring to me. I am his first woman in his life and he needs somemore practice. he does't make me excited or arouse me at all. I am affriad to cheat on him pls help.
2006-09-29 22:16:50 · 6 answers · asked by rita23 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
sorry, I remember your previous question. the first thing is to make sure that YOU understand what you like. Then, you can guide him to do the things that you like. Also, you can experiment/ get kinky, and you might discover something that motivates both of you at the same time.
However, judging by your previous question, I'm not sure if he's unselfish enough to try some new things in bed, or to pay more attention to his wife's preferences.
good luck! My advice is still get a new husband.
2006-09-29 22:26:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will always regret being unfaithful, In my mind marriage is for keeps, any problems you have within that marriage should be sorted out openly and that means straight talking. Go to your man and tell him there is something wrong and you both need to work together to find out what. Being unfaithful is a mistake don't even think about it. If domestic violence is involved, seek help from the authorities and leave as soon as possible
2006-10-01 17:02:16 · answer #2 · answered by Redmonk 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u love him?? and does he love you? if the answer to both are yes....then sit down ,talk to each other...are you sure the fault is his? or were you interested initially and not now?
set aside egos...work with each other ,tell him what you like,ask him what he likes and then enjoy life..
NO MATTER WHAT DONT CHEAT!!!!! A MARRIAGE IS FOR A LIFETIME
2006-09-30 06:14:19 · answer #3 · answered by drrr07 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Rent some how to movies.
Get him some books to read and educate himself.
No need to cheat.
2006-09-30 05:27:44 · answer #4 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
TALK TO HIM ABOUT IT. PUT IT IN A WAY LIKE,"HEY WHY DON'T WE TRY THIS". THIS WILL NOT HURT HIM. EXPLORE TOGETHER!!!! TRY NEW THINGS, POSITIONS, AND BRING TOYS INTO YOUR LOVE MAKING!!!!!!!
2006-09-30 05:32:41 · answer #5 · answered by MAJOR JIM 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
rita!get counselling
2006-09-30 05:33:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋