my girlfriend Brittany has this x boyfriend that won't leave us alone and this time he gave her a fat lip, we tried telling her parents but they wouldn't listen, and mine said "you can handle this". He keeps calling her and she keeps hanging up on him and I had to spend the night again becuase last night he was trying to get in her bedroom window I'm 15 and she's almost 13(this December) and we have no idea what to do, he keeps making her cry which makes me haul off and smack him but then she stands up for me and he grabs her and then something else happens and I can't stop him from grabbing her because then she'll just say it's Ok Gerald don't try to stop him you'll just make it worse. I have no idea what to do, I've tried beating him up,yelling,telling parents,monitoring her phone call with ou ther knowledge(since some believed that she was leading him on) and nothing I don't know what to do.
2006-09-29 21:19:35 · 8 answers · asked by nothingforthebest666 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ANd when I say to her either stand up for us or there will be no us she starts to cry and say she's sorry and I never wanted to see her cry it hurts me too much to see her in pain but she just won't stand up to him, only once but then she never did it again cuz her Mom said it wasn't her right to raise her voice to him. PLZ help I love her but I don't know what to do.
2006-09-29 21:21:18 · update #1
She has to go to the Police and Child Protective Services. If her parents won't get involved, these will make them.
2006-09-29 21:22:14 · answer #1 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the?! What is wrong with yours and her parents?! Call the police if he's trying to get in. Her parents let you spend the night with their 13 year old or are you hiding in the closet?! You know, she CAN sleep on the couch. I bet the first time he comes over and there is a police car sitting outside, he won't bother her or come to her window anymore. Try that.
2006-09-30 04:23:51 · answer #2 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's too scared to call the police so do it for her. Do it for her own good, even if it means her getting angry at you and wants to leave you for it. Would you rather have a girlfriend who says it's okay that she gets beat up, or would you rather have a possible ex-girlfriend who lives in safety because her abuser is put away?
I know it's a hard decision, but your heart knows what is right.
Call the Domestic Violence hot-lines in your area. They can help you to help her be safe.
BTW, don't hit him. It makes things look bad for you. He can turn around and call the cops on you. Imagine being put away for that and this creep has a free go at your girlfriend!
2006-09-30 04:27:34 · answer #3 · answered by thezaylady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My goodness kid! If it is that bad call the cops or something. Talk some sense into your parents too....I can't believe that hers don't care that he is sneaking in her window, and that you are having to stay there at night to protect her......Call Child Protective, the Sheriff, 911 something, anyone!!.....you kids shouldn't have to deal with this!! Good Luck!
2006-09-30 04:23:05 · answer #4 · answered by Brown_Eyed_Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get the police involved. This sounds serious and I am disgusted the parentals are not taking this seriously
2006-09-30 04:22:18 · answer #5 · answered by brown_sugah064 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has it occurred to any of the people involved here that this a case for the police?
2006-09-30 04:21:23 · answer #6 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and your gf go to the courthouse and put a 'peace bond' against him. If she doesn't want to do that, then it's time for you to find another gf.
2006-09-30 04:24:44 · answer #7 · answered by Jaded 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beat the F(_)ck Out of That Motherf(_)cker. and then Break Up with her if she Doesn't defend You Honor.
2006-09-30 04:21:42 · answer #8 · answered by Latino_Lifestyle 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋