Ok, I used to belong to a church group but then my mom got kicked out becuz of her conduct. I got upset becuz things started happening and the people in charge did not care and didnt do anything about it. I ended switching groups becuz of this mess. When I switched she did too and we went together. Well, I recently went thru some seriuos issues with the people in charge and now that my mom is doing good there, it seems like she dos'nt care! She even invited the people, I cant stand due to our recent issues, to her house for a party. I was invited too but I cant stand them! I would never do that to her! Thats why all that happened last time was becuz of her and now its like she is ok with these people that I have a problem with. I am so mad, anyone ever been thru this?
2006-09-29 20:28:38 · 21 answers · asked by Justme 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
She DOES know about EVERYTHING that happened to me and about what those people in charge said and did. I told her everything and this all happened in a two month course. She was there 4 me when I cried about it, which was often
2006-09-29 20:37:38 · update #1
LIsten I know u feel like its a slap in the face, but she will see one day. That what u did deserves more appreciation from her part
2006-09-30 11:04:08 · answer #1 · answered by Photographer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,i think you need to grow up a bit and relaise one thing that you cant go on making enemies whole your life,you also need to forgive people the way your mom did....shes an experienced lady,shes your mom for gods sake she wont do anything to harm you...and forgiving is the biggest good you can ever do as per the bible,right!!
sometimes,due to difference of opinion people say things in anguish and ignorance,that doesnt ,mean you'll stop living the same world as them and its always better to sort out differences and move on with life,try and understand your mom and things,look at them little positively and you'll be happier.talk to your mom and get to know from her,m sure she'll explain it better!!good luck!!
2006-09-29 21:30:48 · answer #2 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey first of all im sorry for waht happened to u
but let me ask u a quetion
did u ever talk to u r mom about ur troubles and feelings
how u felt about her attitude
or else there is a better way pray
u where in a church group so that won't be hard for
and im sure GOD will definetly speak to u
take care
vish
2006-09-29 20:34:24 · answer #3 · answered by vish 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 05:58:37 · answer #4 · answered by titman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to talk to her. Be a Big Girl and say "mom when you invited those people over it really hurt me because you know that I have issues with them. Would you please not invite them anymore?"
Don't waste anymore
Time
Effort or
Energy
on this situation. Confront her, tell her how you feel.
I guarantee she either
Didn't know
or
Didn't mean to
I've found that to be true in 99% of all situations in life. People either don't know or didn't mean to.
Give her a chance to make it right...She deserves at least that okay?
Good luck babe :)
2006-09-29 20:33:49 · answer #5 · answered by Ponderpink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOUR friends do not have to be your mother's friends; by the same token, HER friends do not have to be YOUR friends, either. Each should be able to have their own friends without such silly, childish behavior.
She is NOT choosing them over you nor is she betraying you; she is merely her right to have her own friends. Get over it. Grow up.
YOU owe HER your loyalty... she's your MOTHER! YOU owe her MORE respect than what you seem to be showing by your childish behavior.
I suspect you do not like to hear this, but, young lady, those that tell you otherwise are not being your friends. When YOU have children of your own, you WILL UNDERSTAND what I've just said far better than you understand them now. Is your behavior typical of Christians?
Good luck and best wishes.
2006-09-29 20:38:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Lmao. your mom got kicked out of a church group??- thats funny right there.. i dont care who you are =)
2006-09-29 21:05:01 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Perfectly.Flawed♥ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
SHE IS YOUR MOM BUT RESOLVE YOUR ISSUES WITH HER AND MOVE ON YOU DON HAVE TO BE THE BEST OF FRIENDS JUST AS LONG AS THERE IS A UNDERSTANDING YALL HAVE. LIFE IS SHORT FORGIVE AND FORGET.
2006-09-29 21:20:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just what kind of a church do you go to? sounds like a bunch of whacko's to me!
2006-09-29 21:22:55 · answer #9 · answered by MC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think we all take our family and friends too much for granted.
Stop moaning for a minute and be more apreciative.
Imagine how awful it would be if they suddenly weren't there.
2006-09-29 20:30:06 · answer #10 · answered by mada m 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋