we're very much in love, talking about marriage. i'm on birth control, he will use a condo, std-free i'm a virgin, as is he. Marriage is still about 3-4 years away. Should i sleep with him?
2006-09-29 19:14:45 · 15 answers · asked by Me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you want to, you'll know if the time is right...
I would hope your at least 18
2006-09-29 19:38:51 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
IF NOT SLEEP, AT LEAST MAKE LOVE. It looks to me like you've been planning this for awhile, since your already on birth control. Still if your virginity is important to you, make sure your doing the right thing. Does he even have a ring on your finger yet? I'd wait and be certain first. 3 to 4 years, is a long ways away.
2006-09-30 02:23:17 · answer #2 · answered by penelope 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer to that question from any of us guys will always be yes .
All Kidding aside it sounds like you have done your homework .
The first time is either gonna be the best thing that happended or a little bit of a let down .
As you get to know each other and your trust grows in each other its the closest thing to heaven on earth either of you can get .
2006-09-30 02:23:29 · answer #3 · answered by bolounit1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are ASKING this question, then no you should not because that means there is some doubt in your mind. Doubt can equal 'future regret', and yuo don't want that. Being a virgin, you should only have sex is there is there is no doubt in your mind.
I hope this was helpful for you.
take care,
2006-09-30 02:23:16 · answer #4 · answered by Purricat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are asking, that means you are unsure, so don't do it. You will see that a relationship can be deep, interesting and satisfying without having to worry about pregnancy, diseases, and heartache a sexual relationship may bring you if you are not ready. If he's a honey, he will wait for you.
2006-09-30 02:47:37 · answer #5 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
remember that YOU CAN NEVER TAKE IT BACK, its enjoyable yes but if it is done with the wrong person it can be the worste experience of your life. If you KNOW he is the one, sure, but if you doubt it do yourself a favor and wait. youll love yourself for it
2006-09-30 02:21:49 · answer #6 · answered by 2nice 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u think ur doing it cuz he is "the one" then dont. 3-4 years is too long anything can happen. u dont want to regret it later!
2006-10-01 23:54:07 · answer #7 · answered by iamtired 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What age are the both of u? If you are experimenting, wait till you both are of legit age. Sex is not THAT great.
2006-09-30 02:22:53 · answer #8 · answered by daisy770 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um you should probably wait awhile until your really really ready that's a big step and well if your emotionally ready do it but be sure
2006-09-30 02:21:04 · answer #9 · answered by flyinghigh006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI,,, darn that is almost like Over Kill,, there honey,,,, why are you on BC,, if your not screwing?? lol anyway,,, darn go for it???
good luck
2006-09-30 02:26:33 · answer #10 · answered by eejonesaux 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋