m very attractive and spend most of time refusing dates. This guy ,i met at a friends place expressed his attraction 4me and we made out once and then we lost touch since i went abroad for studies.He found my contact after 2years and spoke for hours about my life ,my family and how much he wanted me ,missed me,if i missed him ,if i was with anyother guy all this time..he called me on a date with desperation and made me cancel my movie plans with friends as he wanted to meet me very bad and on the day simply said if we could meet up some other day and hasnt called ever15days after that..my friends say -his loss,,wat was he doin playing a game?????????i really like him a lot..
2006-09-29 19:13:11 · 17 answers · asked by benazir 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He has a problem alright. Don't know what his problem is. Insecurity? Cheating? Something else came up? Whatever it is, it is still childish unless there is a good reason why you got stood up. If you can't make the date for any reason, at least have the common courtesy to at least pick up a phone and call your date and explain why well in advance. Assuming it is possible of course.
It is his loss and not yours. Move on to the next potential suitor. LOL
2006-09-29 19:18:21 · answer #1 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he was turned off by the way you seem to be conceited.
How do you know for sure he still likes you (if he ever did for that matter)?
My point is, maybe he just wants to be friends now, and he just simply wanted to meet up with you.
I may have missed something reading your question, as it was fairly difficult to read, perhaps you could add some additional info?
In any case.. good luck.
2006-09-29 19:18:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
he became a man. Now the only way to get him back is for you to confront him of your feelings. If you an attractive person i'm very confident you can get his attention if you call him up and tell him that you like him.
2006-09-29 19:18:05 · answer #3 · answered by jacob s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it quite is excellent to ask the guy, because of the fact sometimes the guy would "falsely" get a vibe which you will in comparison to him in any way... which in worry of rejection would desire to maintain him from ever going forward to you. yet a woman asking a guy is his dream because of the fact its the toughest section. And if the lady techniques and asks HIM out, its only that quite extra desirable, lol.
2016-10-18 05:55:22 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can see why he stood you up. You sound very confident in your attractiveness almost to the point of being conceited. "I'm very attractive and spend most of my time refusing dates".
Well, hun, if you spend most of your time refusing dates that kind of limits your playing field now doesn't it? :p
2006-09-29 19:15:29 · answer #5 · answered by midwestbruin 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the thing is it could b a game or a test a game to see if u really fell for him so he can feel better about himself, or a test to see if u showed but then he got scared
2006-09-29 19:18:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to find out what happen to him .....may be something bad happen.....don't prejudge.....but if u find out that he actually was playing a game....forget him...he never was your, so just say next...........it's part of life...but don't stop yourself from getting to know ppl....Not everybody is the same.....he is a fool for doin that to you.he is the loser not you....you lost nothing...be happy
2006-09-29 19:19:34 · answer #7 · answered by Ynot78 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is he a player? Maybe he wanted revenge for something that happened in the past...
2006-09-29 19:16:59 · answer #8 · answered by what? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe Karma has come up to bite you in the butt. You sound like you refuse dates and seem a bit self absorbed. get over it.
2006-09-29 19:16:25 · answer #9 · answered by L♥G 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
In a coma in the hospital.
Don't you watch soap operas?
2006-09-29 19:16:22 · answer #10 · answered by captn_carrot 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋