I met a guy a month ago and we've hung out a couple times. He gave me oral on accident once and basically whenever we talk he always wants me to talk about my emotions or to open up to him. I don't get it. Why does he like talking about it? Then he tells me that he gets the impression I hide my emotions or that I don't want to share, but yeah, i dont want people I dont know well to know what I want or feel.
Why does he want to delve deeper into my emotional psyche?
2006-09-29 19:13:00 · 5 answers · asked by what? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Prolly trying to 'connect' with you cause he likes you. But then i dont think he knows that this is also called 'coming on too strong'
2006-09-29 19:15:15 · answer #1 · answered by Dabidu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like this guy wants to get to know you better. We girls are always telling guys that they don't open up enough or talk about their feelings. You obviously knew him well enough to become intimate with him, how can you think you don't know him well enough to know what you want or feel but you can allow him to know your body really well. Be glad the guy is interested in you well enough to want to share his feelings and want a little insite into yours. If you're not intersted in him anymore, move on, if you are be glad you found a guy you can talk to.
2006-09-29 19:20:28 · answer #2 · answered by Cynthia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's way to soon for him to be there. He sounds like a bit of a nut, unless of course he's a therapist or something and just can't leave the job???
You don't have to share anything with him that you don't want to, to thine own self be true.
Follow your gut...........it's usually right.
People who want to know too much too soon....seem to be a little bit controlling to me.
Your emotional psyche is yours and you choose who you want there............tell him to take a chill pill and just have fun........the heavy stuff will come later if you want it to, but remember you're in the drivers seat.......
Happy Trails
2006-09-29 19:24:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
mor than likley casue you could be some one he confides in and trusts more htan others and he feels that he can talk to you and be open..no one else may be there for him
2006-09-29 19:16:23 · answer #4 · answered by mother of two 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you give someone oral on accident???
2006-09-30 00:25:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋