you see its 2 yaers ago that at high school i had a crush on this latin girl really cute, that crush soon passed for a while before i fell in love with her again and this time it was perminent, at the end of the school year i expressed my feelings for her, like an idiot it went wrong i paniced and that was it now 3 montrhs later i still can't forget her whats going on please help me!
2006-09-29 18:57:57 · 6 answers · asked by garnes d 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Someone is LOVE STRUCK! You might also not be able to forget about her because you liked her so much and than you got rejected. That has happened to me before, with a guy. It's perfectly normal there is nothing wrong with you. You might really be in love with her but you will never know until you get your chance with her. Maybe you should try to be her friend before you move into something more serious. Girls like to know you before they start a relationship with you. Hope I helped you out some!
Sugar Bear
2006-09-29 19:03:14 · answer #1 · answered by Sugar Bear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, I went through a similar experience in high school. You need to realize a couple of things:
1) The girl does not like you. Good, now you can move on to girls who do like you. You may have to ask MANY girls out before you find one that you like and who likes you back.
2) You have to have restraint when it comes to these things. You barely knew this girl, and you went up to her and spilled the beans! That was a big mistake. Girls lose respect for you instantly when you do stuff like that.
Have a look at this guy's advice column (his book is expensive too, but I do not regret buying it), and you will better understand women.
http://www.askmen.com/dating/doclove/
http://www.doclove.com/
He has a radio show every Wednesday too, and it's archived. If you have a fast enough connection, I recommend you listen to some of that too (hint: download the show segments so you can skip the ads for his book)
http://www.worldtalkradio.com/archives.asp?sid=202
You will know a lot more after you study some of that guy's stuff. Relax and cheer up! Good night!
2006-09-30 02:26:22 · answer #2 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might just be still caught up in the feeling.. the feeling of having someone to like.
why do you like her in the first place?
why can't you forget about her?
what's so special about her?
why are you not allowing yourself to move on?
if she doesn't like you, there's almost no point in trying to impose yourself on her any further. try to let her get to know you more maybe? or just get over it ;P you won't die, i promise.
2006-09-30 02:11:54 · answer #3 · answered by Episode1497 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just forget about her....or just go up to her again and tell her how u feel.......this time breath and think about what u r going to say before u go up to her....so da same thing doesnt happen again...
2006-09-30 02:03:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please tell yourself - SHE GENUINELY DOESNT LIKE YOU.
Tell yourself that your harming yourself.
In the meanwhile , take up some hobby !
2006-09-30 02:01:09 · answer #5 · answered by Beautiful Snowwhite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep it up you are going very well.
2006-09-30 02:02:24 · answer #6 · answered by jack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋