WHY did MY mom NOT abort ME as A FETUS?

Question

I am 14 and never had a girlfriend and am only 5'0!!! and I hate my mom for not aborting me as a fetus! I am a damaged fetus I do not deserve to live in a tall persons world!! I mean shorter people have less dates less kids less marrige less jobs less pay less everything and am never going to get tall!?!? or get a girlfriend I am just gonna be a virgin for my hole life!?! no one takes me suriously or looks at me with respect!?! I hate my life where can I get steralized because I dont want my kids to go through this when I marry some midget wife since thats all am gonna get probley any way bcuz am so short and I dont wana make them suffer in a tall persons world?!!? my mom is so stupid for not aborting me!!!!!

Answer 1

are you kidding?? Look at Putin, he is 5'0" and he is the President of Russia!! Or look at the host of the American Idol show, Ryan Seacrest. Besides, you are only 14, you will start growing very fast after you turn 18 and will keep growing until you're about 25-26 y.o. AND it is just way TOO early for you to have a girlfriend right now/ You are a kid, so concentrate on the school/

Answer 2

You know what? You are really tripping,you should be thankful to wake up to see a new day and to be healthy,there are some who are not as lucky as you. You are only 14 and already deciding what you think your life will be.Do you think you are the only short person in the world? I'm short and I'm not sitting here complaining about it and I got kids and they have not experienced any problems and neither have I. You are wrong to be talking about your mother this way,she brought you into this world and take care and provide for you and you're sitting there complaining, you should be ashamed of yourself. There are people who are starving and dying of diseases in this country and elsewhere and you're complaining about something as petty as height.Height don't make the person,never has and never will.Everybody can't look alike,there are things I don't like about my body but I'm not crying a river over it.I'm just living my life and enjoying everyday that's a good day.Do you think you're the only one who has never had a girlfriend or is a virgin? The world is not going to end because you have done neither of those things.You're only 14,not 45,you haven't even begun life yet!As far as that sex thing go,that's not going to enhance your life,you don't need to rush into something that you are not mature enough to handle yet.You're taking this height thing too far and I hope you come to realize that there are things far more important in life than height,concentrate on education and you will go far in life.

Answer 3

Oh come on...you are only 14 yrs old.puberity probably haven't even hit you yet. You got plenty of time to grow. Nothing is wrong with you nor short people. Life just doesn't seem like it's going any where for you right now b/c you are thinking negatively. I mean...look at all the short people...they are surviving. They still have a happy families,jobs,etc.... Just b/c you are short doesn't mean your children will be short like you. I have cousins who's parents are until 5 ft and they kids turned out to be 6 ft 5 how do you explain that? My husband is only 5'4 and I love him dearly. I see him normal like I see a 6 ft man.
Give yourself some time to go eventually you will see thinks different. In the meantime...don't say your mom is stupid b/c your words can really hurt her feelings.
You are only 14 and nothing wrong w/not having a gf. you have plenty of time to date. When your time comes you'll be suprised. godo luck and best wishes.

Answer 4

Wow.... Who shoved a stick up your a**? Just chill out, dude. Not everyone in the world is meant to be tall. And you're trying to tell me that you would have rather never existed? That's a bit harsh.

But if you're SO intent on hating life, why don't you post this question in the Family subcategory where it belongs? Think it over though. Life's not about girls or money or cars; it's about being ahead by living in a free country, and knowing that you've got more privileges than most people even dream of in the rest of the world.

Answer 5

You have my empathy for the pain you are going thru .

My mom smoked and drank when she had me .

Get some counseling and DONT DO ANYTHING STUPID

Check with your doctor . Take arginine alfa ketaglutorate and orthine and gaba under your doctors care .These amino acids stimulate the pitutary gland and help make the most of your bodys potential to make growth hormone .

You as a small person will have one awesome advantage . Dont due steroids but lift weights like a son of a b*tch . Small Men can pack on high quality muscle naturaly without resorting to steroids . Go for the gymnast type build .

Answer 6

Honey, you nonetheless have some extra years until eventually at last you will end growing to be. i understand you do not prefer to hearken to this, yet wait and notice, it is going to come. I even have this pal who went in the process an identical element you probably did. He became into your age and going loopy because of the fact he became into so small and anxious approximately ever getting a woman pal. Now he's eighteen and so hott, he grew slightly taller, he's probably 5' 7", even nonetheless it is not correct. he's constructive and girls see that, not his top. hang in there, extreme college could be VERY harsh and vicious, even nonetheless it rather is basically 4 years and then it rather is over.

Answer 7

OK...it's like this...in life you should really focus on your strengths and pursue it all the way. If you are a brain then really become a strong brain and get rich and use your intellect to impress short girls. If you are funny then do standup comedy and make endless fun of your height. If you are poetic then focus on poetry and become friends with a lot of girls in college and they will have tons of sex with you b/c the "feel" your pain. Always look people in the eye when walking by them. Your mother loved you...do everything you can in her honor to live a great life. Anything less would be selfish and weak. It's your choice buddy!

Answer 8

Don't listen to these clowns. You may grow some more, but maybe you'll stay short. You're still growing, so my recommendation would be calcium. Drink a lot of milk. If you drink a lot of milk, you will maximize your growth potential.

The reason she didn't abort you was because she was selfish - she got knocked up and wanted to create some miniature spawn of herself. Now, you have to suffer for her bad decision. Hating your mom for doing what she did to you is fine.

If you get older and you're still short and hating life, then I wouldn't blame you for taking your own life. Life is not easy, and it might not be worth living.

Here's a link to information on vasectomies. It's a means of sterilization, in case you do end up short and don't want to create more suffering.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vasectomy

Best of luck to you.

Answer 9

Dude! Check yourself. I am a 5'6" man. I may be short, but I don't let it stop me in life or let it get me down. You are only 14 years old. You have a lot of growing to do. I won't grow one more inch.

Your mom probably didn't abort you while preganant with you because she wanted to be a mom and made the loving decision to have you.

Answer 10

~~your mom loved you and did right by not aborting you. once you learn to love yourself you will find that others will love you too. no one wants to hang with someone who is negative and downing themselves all the time. a person can be 7 foot tall and be a small person on the inside and a person can be 3 feet tall and be a big person on the inside... what you do with your life is what will make you the bigger person.~~