In the past 2 weeks i have been asked out by four guys and well to tell you the truth i really don't want to be in a relationship right now. I have told them all no and that i am not looking for a relationship right now but they are continuing to pursue me. what do i do to get them to leave me alone??
2006-09-29 18:34:16 · 32 answers · asked by Amez 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What you might want to consider being assertive and stand on your ground - straight up....guys will ask you forever to go out with them and they probably really like you so they are going to keep being persistent and it is how you use your 'assertiveness & communication skills' to firmly, gracefully keep saying no...guys like it when girls say 'no'....it's a challenge. SO....MAYBEEEEEE....you should try 'toning down their intentions and say "I really do not have time to go out right now, but let's go to have a coffee (or whatever.....) for a while....that will bore them and assume you are boring (???or maybe they will like that.lol..) but they might get the message that you are flattered by their interest but you are not in the 'relationship mode' right now....good luck, girlie girl.....and stay firm & true to your feelings!
2006-09-29 18:42:43 · answer #1 · answered by Susan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are pursuing you for the fact that you don't want a relationship. They probably want a girl they can have FUN with. Try a different approach. Tell them your seeing someone and maybe they'll leave you alone.
2006-09-29 18:38:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hey girl I am right there with you. I had 8 guys ask me in one week. It got a little crazy. I only like one guy. Just tell them no and if you can't get them to stop just tell them that there are other things in life and that thesy shouldnt wait around because you have already said your answer!!!
2006-09-29 18:39:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just keep saying no. It's because they like the hunt better than the catch. Everyone wants what they can't have. But, if you're not ready, too bad. They'll just have to learn to live with it.
2006-09-29 18:38:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell them to leave you alone until you want a boyfriend/tell them you will call them.
2006-09-29 18:38:07 · answer #5 · answered by Kendall S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Say no,is the best answer you can tell them.They only want to have sex with you.They do not love you.If they continuing bothering you,after you say no,call the police,tell to your parents.Good luck.
2006-09-29 18:40:32 · answer #6 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the best way is to ignore them. eventually then will realize that a conversation with only one person is kind of hard to keep going
2006-09-29 18:36:26 · answer #7 · answered by LIL' DEVIL 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you sound young so just keep saying no that is you best thing to do and evetually the guys will not ask you anymore
2006-09-29 18:37:44 · answer #8 · answered by Dawn S 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore them, and if that dosnt work, tell ur dad, he should hav a crowbar in the shed.(JK, but not really)
2006-09-29 18:37:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have answered your own Question, Keep saying No, in time they will Stop,
2006-09-29 18:40:44 · answer #10 · answered by dmncprkr 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋