oki so i go to this school and no one in the classes like me and im in middle school my mom says i ahve to stay there till november 1st what do i do?
2006-09-29 18:29:08 · 4 answers · asked by qween 1 in Education & Reference ➔ Other - Education
It is hard when this happens - but in time, you will find some friends.. don't worry. You are not the only one who goes through this- AT ALL. It happens to so many people - I see questions like this on here even all of the time.
One thing in life that I have learned is that you can't run from things.. if you leave this school and go to another, you may feel the same way - it is not because people don't like you because I am sure they have not even gotten to know you - the reason you feel like this is because you sound like you may be feeling bad and insecure about yourself and you really have to pick yourself back up and try to make friends - don't let this get you down - let it pick you up and be friendly, put yourself out there and meet people - they will like you. If you switch schools ( I am not sure why you are leaving this one Nov 1 - you did not say) - you are just running from the problem instead of dealing with it and fixing it - and the way to do that is build up your self esteem - find out why you are a bit insecure right now. =) There is a quote that says "Wherever we go, there we are" - meaning no matter what school you are in, unless you build your confidence and get friendly, this would probably still happen - no matter where it was - you see?
Try to join up for a club at school or a sports team that you like - that way you can meet & get to know people in school with similar interests - and make friends.
Don't think that no one likes you - that is not true. It sounds like you may have some low self esteem so try to cheer yourself up and give yourself some positive "self-talk" - talk to yourself in the mirror and say that you are a good, worthwhile person and that people would be lucky to have you as a friend - think about all you have to offer in a friendship. The best thing to do is try to build up your confidence (doing things you like to do and are good at would help you do this) and be outgoing and friendly - introduce yourself to people and ask to sit with them at lunch, etc - make friends.. it is ok.. everyone goes through this..
It will get easier.. relax and cheer up :o) You will just be a stronger person in the end - learn from this..
2006-09-29 18:33:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, do what your mom says.
I'm guessing that you are exaggerating. Surely there are people in your classes that like you. Ignore the ones that don't . November 1st is only a month away.
My last bit of advice: BE LIKEABLE.
2006-09-29 18:31:49 · answer #2 · answered by bibliophile31 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Who cares if they don't. If you don't do anything for them not to like you then you don't need them anyway. Just wait it out and just concentrate on your education and not them and don't let it bring you down. Kids are so immature these days! =)
2006-09-29 18:30:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, just try to be friendly. Good luck! :)
2006-09-29 18:30:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋