2006-09-29 18:18:29 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some women do always ignore good guys, some never ignore good guys, just as men do with women.
Here are some reasons for you:
1. Immaturity - Some women are just not mature enough to appreciate a good guy. As they mature and especially if they date some losers, hopefully they gain wisdom and realize the error of their ways.
2. Stupidy - Some women are just plain stupid.
3. Turned off by personality. When guys act desparate and unsure of themselves. Espcially if they are smothering. How can you be happy with someone else if you can't be happy with yourself.
4. Busy - Some women are busy with their careers and if they have children, trying to raise them and take care of their home and the duties that go along with it. A lot of single moms experience this.
5. Emotional Issues - Some women have emotional issues from past relationships that they haven't resolved and need to be resolved before they can move on to even date anyone.
6. Moving TOO FAST in a relationship. - Why not enjoy just being friends with the understanding between the man and the women that it will just be that and wait and see what happens. People need to get to know each other as friends.
7. No chemistry or attraction to the guy. - If ythey are not atracted to the guy, usually this relates to something superficial such as looks.l. I think # 6 is helpful here. Becoming friends with a guy that she (the women) is not attracted too gives her a chance to learn about his personality and how he handles problems and lives his life. Many times a chemistry will develop because the guy is a good guy and she'll see that/respect it and fall in love with him for who he is and vice versa.
I'd rather be with a good guy and so would many other women. We're out there, you probably won't meet us in the typical places where you'd expect. Keep your eyes open. Good luck.
2006-09-29 19:11:42 · answer #1 · answered by pcgirl2006 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Not all women ignore good guys. It might just be the wrong woman your seeking attention from. Maybe she sees you as a friend.
2006-09-29 18:22:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Men marry a woman hoping she will not change. Women marry a man hoping to change him. Women need the challenge in order to sharpen the maternal instinct. There a women will choose a man who challenges her more than a "good guy" will. Netfursta?
2006-09-29 18:27:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I wouldnt if I was single but Im not,some times they say there a good guy and they turn out to be a real jerk I have been with my boyfriend for over ten years I have child with him to he not perfect but he hasnt ever laid a hand on me or my child so I guess hes a good guy.
2006-09-29 18:28:36 · answer #4 · answered by tootles 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well I alway's think I am with a good guy, and later find out how wrong I was. You guys are hard for us to spot, we always ask where are all the good guy's.
2006-09-29 18:28:41 · answer #5 · answered by Robin W 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
we don't always ignore them, sometimes we're just blind to them. they might seem boring or ordinary and we're looking to be dazzled. maybe by looks or sex appeal, maybe by money or glamour. sometimes we just have to grow up to see what we've been missing. you guys aren't hard to find, just hard to see. and sometimes we think we've got one, but it doesn't turn out that way, so we get a little wary, not always trusting you when you're on the level.
don't give up, we're not always that stupid. eventually we'll figure it out, but in the mean time, we'll both be kinda lonely, hoping to meet the right person.
2006-09-29 18:27:21 · answer #6 · answered by gelfin1028 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
We don't really ignore you, don't you notice that you are always our "friend"? The one we can count on no matter what?
We usually have our head in the clouds until its too late........then we notice that just maybe you wanted to be more then just "friends"
2006-09-29 18:22:20 · answer #7 · answered by midlifemommy 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think sometimes the good guys are overlooked because maybe they don't stand out as much as others. Maybe their just not bold enough..
2006-09-29 18:22:18 · answer #8 · answered by da5id 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It is a trend with some girls to like the "bad" guys to have some "excitement" in their life.
2006-09-29 18:21:22 · answer #9 · answered by linneh 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
We don't always darling. By the time we figure ourselves out, then figure out that we don't want someone like our dad, or someone who is going to treat us like crap, or someone that we need to fix, a good guy comes along a sweeps us off our feet.
2006-09-29 18:22:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋