Theres this guy that's been showing me major attention. Online he IMS me a lot.. but like in class he kind of avoids talking to me... some people would say that he's shy but id say that its cause he doesnt want others to know that i know him. I dont know.. something tells me that he cant talk to me.. just like i cant talk to him....
Then theres this other guy in my chinese class.. he sits across from me and i havent talked to him yet, but i have this feeling he wants to talk to me. Yet I know hed never start talking to me.. cause hes one of those guys that just dont talk to girls. I would start talking to him but I just don t knw. I know eventually id get over the first guy.. but as of right now my feeelings for him are still so strong... hes talked about so much .. shared so much with me. i know it doesnt mean anything but i cant help but think that it does. what on earth should i do?
2006-09-29 18:08:28 · 3 answers · asked by sam3345 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have a Chinese class? What's THAT like? On IM, people can open up a lot easier usually because it's more relaxed and we have th opportunity to think about what we want to say and take it back before we send it out. He's probably just nervous. He likes you, but he's nervous.
2006-09-29 18:11:43 · answer #1 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All right, this is what you should do; am an older woman and have been though this when I was in high school, but I do wish we had e-mail or even a computer for that matter, but anyways. Slip him on a piece of paper with your phone number and your e-mail and see what happens if he doesn’t call or e-mail well you’ll know were you stand with him and just ignore him in class for the rest of the semester. This other guy that wont talk to you in school come front him about it next time he email you find out what’s his problem with talking to you in public.
2006-09-30 01:29:15 · answer #2 · answered by Ms Pollyanna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first guy shared with you in the IMmode, and that is comforting to someone who is shy, or not sure how you would react to him in person.(I don't get the doesn't want others to know he knows you thing) You need to engage in a meaningful conversaton IN PERSON. Don't be afraid to approach him, especially after "you shared so much". Talk directly to the guy in your chinese class, he may be the best friend you never met.
2006-09-30 01:16:50 · answer #3 · answered by pazd7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋