Okay, I have two guy questions...?

Question

First of all,
A guy had asked me out like twice over the summer, and both times I said yes, but he stood me up. Well today, he came up to me and was like, "Somebody just threw this really big rock at me and it hit me in the ankle bone..." Well anyways, I leaned in to kiss him on the cheek, {I kiss everybody on the cheek, its a habit}, and he gave me the dirtiest look ever, and then pushed me away. What does that mean???

Secondly,
This too happened today. This guy I really liked came up to me and asked if I wanted to walk, I said yes, and we were walking and talking about sexual incounters we both have had. Well anyways, he leans in and kisses me. And there we stood, makeing out. Full on touching too! Well anyways, later I walked up to him to ask him a question, and he told me to save it for monday. Does that mean he still likes me??? Or does it mean he was using me, to give him an hj. What should I do???

Answer 1

First:
I think he's not interested in you. He started making up this story to make you feel better about standing you up, but then he chickened out when you were going to kiss him. Maybe he likes you but is not a kisser. It is also possible that he did not feel like he knew you well enough. But I really think he is not interested in you. I don't know why people stand each other up like that. It's never happened to me, but I would expect a reasonably good excuse before wasting any more time on the person.

Second:
I don't know. This one is a bit weird. I would have asked "Why not now?" or "Why does it have to wait for Monday?" Maybe he was too busy to talk or something, or maybe he is trying to save some interesting conversation for later. Maybe he had a lot on his mind, or felt guilty about what he did. Also, he may have been trying to use you or something like that. You should wait until Monday, ask him the question, and see how he interacts with you. Observe his behavior carefully. Also, try hanging out with him and his friends to see how he interacts with you in the presence of his friends. It is possible that he didn't want to talk to you in front of his friends or something, but I do not know if his friends were around when you tried to pose your question to him. Anyway, I think you get the idea. Note any additional signs of him using you.

Good night!

Answer 2

Ok, answer for 1st question. Everybody has an invisible comfort zone that they build around them. For example, you sound like an outgowing kind of person so your comfort zone is in very close to you so even strange people can get right up to you before you start to feel uneasy about it. The guy you are talking about probably has a rather wide comfort zone that you violated when you moved in & kissed him so he was offended.

Answer to 2nd question. This answer also takes into consideration your actions in the 1st part of your question as well, where you are offering a kiss on the cheek for a guy who has stood you up twice. I have major concerns for you Honey. You have low self-esteem written all over you.
In your 2nd situation you spontaniously make out with a guy right there in the street, then later he's rude to you, & now you are wondering if he is still going to like you???
What about you sweety? Do either of these guys deserve YOUR attention & time?
People treat you the way you teach them. You seem to be teaching guys to treat you with absolutely NO respect.
Respect is not something that you can demand from people either. It is something that won't ever happen for you until you start to respect yourself.

Here's a couple of examples to get you started.
The next time a guy asks you out for a date, & he's a no-show. Don't give him a 2nd chance to do it again. And especially don't offer him kisses afterwards.

The next time a guy wants to play touchy -feely with you right there on the street. Put out your hand & say. Sorry buddy, but I don't kiss until after the 2nd date. (For now, drop the habit of kissing guys for every excuse under the sun. It's sweet, but will be most often misinterpreted by guys as indicating that you are easy.)

Make tomorrow a new day where you show respect for yourself. before long others will have no choice but to respect you too.

Answer 3

Sorry to say but you know the answer to both questions. It might be that the first guy asked you out but then hooked up with another girl or maybe his friends didn't approve of you. The second guy was just using you. Sorry :(

Answer 4

Firstly, sounds like he hit a perfect 10 on the gay scale. He got hit in the ankle...do they not have phones there?

Secondly, sounds like he was using you for a thrill or to see how far he could get....stay away from him.

Best of luck.

Answer 5

First guy probably was using you the second guy might like you wait till monday and ask him the question and see what he does with the question.

Answer 6

Sounds like used

Answer 7

What should you do? Keep the information to urself, cause it does not put u in a good light and learn from both experiences

Answer 8

guy #1 is a looser, so loose him. two missed dates?? come on, he could have made an effort to call you. and to get upset at a kiss, bad news.
guy #2 didn't like the way you made out or was disappointed. he might still LIKE you but don't have big hopes on him either.

Answer 9

I am in my 30 and when some does that it means he is not worth it. on your other question Maybe he is shy doesn't want anyone too know about you and him or maybe it was to strong

Answer 10

Find someone who respects you, dont worry about him. For someone to just start randomly making out with you, hes just trying to use ya.