we've been together for almost 2 years...and i still cant come to do that..every time...i do, i back out.
idk what it is...it just makes me nervous...maybe its because i've never really done it...is it as really as bad as i think it is?
2006-09-29 18:00:03 · 13 answers · asked by BWW 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im just nervous and afraid..because i've never done it before...
and dont get me wrong..i want to do it..
and he isnt forcing..
and i kno he wouldnt judge me...i guess im being hard on myself?
i dont even kno where to begin on how to give him oral..
2006-09-29 18:15:36 · update #1
I think you're afraid that you won't do it "right" or that he won't like the way you do it. I am sure that he will be happy with any attempt that you make. Maybe he can even help you feel more comfortable by telling you what feels good to him. I am not saying that you should feel like you have to give him oral sex. But it's a wonderful feeling to be able to give someone so much pleasure. It's actually pretty powerful.
2006-09-29 18:54:54 · answer #1 · answered by jblonde 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to, then don't. It should only be done if your both going to enjoy it.
Are you just afraid that you won't do it right or that he won't like the way you do it or maybe someone else done it one way and you wont measure up???
Well ease your mind. Your being to hard on yourself. If he loves you and you love him, then go to him. Tell him you want to please him this way but your a little insecure. Tell him not to pressure you, and not to make you uncomfortable. Tell him when you start to allow you to test the waters, and get comfortable with it.
Try it slowly. First you may do a little licking a kissing on his body and work your way down, by the time you get there he will be so aroused, and so should you. If your still not 100% comfortable, just continue to kiss and touch and lick, with out actually placing it inside your mouth. After a few times, you should be able to finish the job once you arrive at the shaft.
2006-09-30 17:49:49 · answer #2 · answered by rebecwi3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even after 10 years,you can just be this way.Dear,it's all about personal choices and there are many who prefer to stay away from oral sex no matter how long you're with the person.Tell him that it's not your cup of tea!You don't feel comfortable with it today,you never will!It's a thing for more adventurous lot who just love it.You're just one of us!!
2006-09-30 01:07:43 · answer #3 · answered by mary 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hey there is nothing to be afraid of, it doesn't bite. It actually feels kinda natural after you start to do it. Just take a slow, try licking it first and then put it in your mouth or just start playing with it, look at it, theres nothing bad about it. Are you afraid you'll hurt him?? You need to give more details... I know ALOT about it so more details about what the problem is please..??
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2006-09-30 01:11:23 · answer #4 · answered by Charmed 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't force yourself in doing it if you don't feel like it or not comfortable with. Guys do like girls to do oral sex on them, but most of it, i guess it's still the sex that counts between this two...
2006-09-30 01:11:24 · answer #5 · answered by porridge0000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it if you're not comfortable with it. He needs to get you dripping wet HORNY before you give him oral sex. You need to be extremely horny and ready to go.
2006-09-30 01:02:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he is pressuring you or you are pressuring yourself. How fun could it be under those circumstances? You are under no obligation to do anything.
2006-09-30 01:03:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no. don't make it seem like it's your fault. it isn't your fault. when the time is right trust me you'll know what you want to do. no it isn't as bad as it seems. it just feel that way.
2006-09-30 01:03:20 · answer #8 · answered by angela b 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Quit being a wimp and jump on that thing
2006-09-30 01:06:13 · answer #9 · answered by bill b 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I don't think it's bad at all, BUT if you don't feel comfortable about it, you shouldn't have to do it.
2006-09-30 01:02:59 · answer #10 · answered by catintrepid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋