I'm a widow with 1 child. 24 yrs old. get 2 know this guy after my divorced. was introduced by my friend which is also his sister. He,s 30 yrs old. b4 i get 2 know him i know his past. he's a drug addict. after 2 month get 2 know him i found out that he's involve with subetex. He promise to change but up till now there's no result. he's been in prison for glue sniffing and i waited for him. today is his 2nd coming out from prison 4 glue sniffing after 2 mnts sentence. Unfortunately I'm involve wif another guy 2 weeks ago. This guy know everything bout my boyfriend. And we already became an item 4 the past 1 week. This guy tat i got 2 know just broken up wif his gilfren cause his gilfren is involve wif another guy. now the girl is preg. and i'm worry tat he might return back to his gfn. but he asked me not to worry he will asked the girl to abort the baby as he can't be wif tat kind of girl who play behind his back. Now i'm confuse who 2 choose please help me.
2006-09-29 17:38:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
last sat we were suppose to go out 2gether but he cancelled it saying tat he's not feeling well. b4 tat he inform me tat his ex gf wan to keep the baby, and he still confuse cause he think about me and his ex at the same time. for the time being he asked me to settle things wif my 1st bf while he settle his thing wif his ex cause he is in confusion right now. i'll say ok.. and on the same day itself i broken up wif my 1st bf. everything went smoothly as i explain y i dont wan to be wif him anymore. after tat i inform the 2nd guy bout tat. last we met was last thursday up till today we have still not meet each other. according to him tat his ex gf needs him at this moment as she's goin 4 abortion. i told him ok, and even told him tat let's say if u guys r on again do let me know so tat i wont call/sms him again. he told me not to worry as he wont make things much more complicated. and asked wether i,m angry wif him. shld i just ignore him, but i really like him cant afford to lose him
2006-10-02 18:00:52 · update #1
Go with the guy that your more comfortable... if ur kid's old enough... ask them who their more comfortable with... It changed our life when my mom asked me too!!
2006-09-29 17:42:35 · answer #1 · answered by Rammer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This 2 guys are definitely not suitable for you, because one is an addict and the other is a flirt (got his g/f pregnant). So, why your standard is so poor, get to know this sort of boyfriends. I'll can tell you that, should you carry on with mixing yourself with this type of friends, end of the day, you will get into more troubles. Take care !
2006-09-29 22:04:23 · answer #2 · answered by James Louis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yr question is sort of contrdicating. Anyway, my advice to you is that you need to calm down and think over carefully. Since you have a child, the most important thing is that which of these guys is willing to treat the child like his own children. We are in the Asian society where some of us still can't really accept the fact that the partner we going to face have kids.
Secondly, is your kids willing to accept a new father? it is always good to have somebody to standby you whenever you need any help but don't make a decision rashly just bcoz you need somebody to standby you. Think over carefully on who you want to be and whom can really support you.
2006-09-29 20:55:30 · answer #3 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you be a widow and divorced?
Neither of these guys sound like winners, i wouldnt have anything to do with either...
2006-09-29 17:52:47 · answer #4 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget these two.. you deserve better!! Do you really want these guys around your child?
2006-09-29 17:42:08 · answer #5 · answered by Purrk3y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋